I just want to try and make things clear...not my place to do but i deeply connect to the situation..!!
i would like to defend Ashu a bit...a post i cross my boundaries and go ahead and do it without consulting Ashu so i am deeply soryy.
Firstly i am sorry if explaining what ashu is trying to say means hurting somebody else..!
no intention whatso ever to do so.
and ashu...i would also like to reason out with you about the things you got pissed about..i dont know if understood correctly but its my perspective
We all have our coping mechanisms and different ways of looking at things.
If its Nisha's way of coping with her loss by retaining the name and certain little aspecs she always associated with and gift it to the story and shape it into the character we all deeply adore...its her way of coping and we all surely connected with it.
if its somebody else's way of coping by forgetting the things that remind them of their loss and protecting themselves from the hurt then its thier way of coping.
if somebody likes to relate the little character to the one who they lost and get amused by the uncanny connection and get awed by Nisha's brilliance in writing its their way of coping
similarly its Ashu's way of coping by embracing the name but not associating with little maanvi as her lost friend reborn
for her MAANVI of SoSy cant be her friend she lost and shared pain with in her last few moments.
it hurts her to find the connect...the beauty of this little kid when compared with somebody else reminds her of the beautiful soul somebody else was...and to know things arnt same hurts her deeply
I am sure the story means a lot to ashu and so does everybody else...hence her response to things went this way.
even i deeply believe that what nisha writes about Maanvi is her amazing creation and excellent understanding of kids and she isnt a rebirth..she is maanvi bhalla and she is being shaped with a great deal of imagination
thanks and sorry if this seemed like speaking against anybody...i am saying it again its not so
and ashu how somebody mentions Maanvi the little kid is thier bond with the character and coping mechanism like i mentioned before