What will II do with her own kids?
Can she differentiate between Akka's kids n her kids?
Her kids are like Nandu the rich Bhallas..
What she will do then?
your own anadaz of text?? nice and thanks
This content was originally posted by: putti77Continuing on the last discussion..
What will II do with her own kids?
Can she differentiate between Akka's kids n her kids?
Her kids are like Nandu the rich Bhallas..
What she will do then?
This content was originally posted by: Nisha0604WWho knows how II will truly be when she has kids she will not be an extreme like a soap bahu or hateful like a soap vamp
Most of us are some where in between, some of us genuinely are able to be nice to kids on both sides, some find it difficult and let wealth and education and "phoren life" cloud our judgementIn our times living in big cities like Mumbai and Delhi got our parents some subtle resentment from siblings that never left small townsNowadays its Australia or US or UK, siblings that live overseas their kids are looked at "differently" they are either "too artificially loved" or "hated for no reason"Some overseas couple overdo it also, by making their kids speak better Hindi or Tamil than their siblings' kids that live in Metros, and so the grandparents are in complete awe "OMG!! They live in WISCONSIN and yet speak such great Tamil"Such parents will constantly post YT videos of their young boys chanting Vishnu Sahasranamam and daughters doing a dance recital a week, while their cousins in Blore and Delhi would spend all their time playing video gamesPeople that live overseas try to project this image of "subtle superiority" by making sure their kids are good in "phoren" and Desi stuffIncreasing the envy of siblings at homeThats unacceptable behavior
This content was originally posted by: taramira
Khaali rich or poor se nahi hota...feelings se hota hai. If you have nurtured someone with love and care right from the beginning, worried for them, stayed up for them...you are more heavily invested in them emotionally. II is caring by nature but what she feels for SHRAVU she can't feel for NANDU, at least not now until she has spent considerable time with him. Then it is also about feeling entitled to love. She hasn't even accepted DUDes family as he very own fully how will she claim haq on NANDU. It will come slowly and steadily. In regards to her own kids, I am sure SAM will feel for RBs and II's kids what II feels for SHRAVU.Arey these relationship are so complicated and unfortunately peopl are constantly judging everyone else purely by their actions and without any empathy...trying to understand what the other person might be feeling. That's why attempts are made especially by bahus to be extra nice to everyone on the in laws side lest they are judged negatively.
This content was originally posted by: taramira
Oh god That's so true. There is this whole mandir/gurdwara clique here. If your children are not a part of hindi or Punjabi classes You are considered kids whose are rootless and on the other side, if they speak hindi and watch hindi films they are considered to be dippers. While visiting family in india, one on the one hand there is awe that they can speak hindi and know all about Ramyan and Mahabharata on the other hand they are considered lesser human beings if they dotn put on an accent. What so this? Either this way or that way they are constantly judged.
This content was originally posted by: Nisha0604
II is ONE IN A BILLION fortunate Shru. TRULY Appa can hate Bhallas all he wants I dont give a ripBut I mean, she does what she wants, she has no responsibility, they dont expect sar par pallu, they dont expect chores, they dont take her money, her sister in alws have their own dramas happening so they dont bother her AT ALL. Her father in law is a peach. Most father in laws whose wife passes on are usually gentle giants... he is no different. Its women who are complete bitchesYa feminists can clobber me I dont give a ripIn Tamil we say "Oru ponnoda vazhkaya kedukarde oru penn daan"Only a woman destroys another woman's life. It happens frequently in joint family settingsComing back, II is free to pursue a career, a family, help her parents financially, is allowed to be shallow and only shop or sleep or go to spas. Its a dream come tru for any middle class girlMost spend 3 hours on a chartered bus and have cook two meals from scratch and haggle with hawkers and fill up water in pots of every sizes to fight water shortage, and run to the medical shop at 11 PM to buy "goodnight" to fight mosquitoesII IS GODDAMN LUCKY!!
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