Originally posted by ishruhi
i dont want to deal with bala's insecurities...as its not an easy job to deal with a young appa.but i would b doing the same as II tries for vandu..vanditha is her only sister.she got a baby after waiting for many years n that too had a difficult pregnancy.II knows how vandu's life is tangled with munirka matters.as a sibling,ii can only do these things for vandu.she has a job n thanks to bhalla family/rnb she dont hav to worry about her future money matters.(yeah she has only around 76000 some in account.but someway she can manage or would hav managed..)and now even akke appears to b pissed off towards her!!!they want II to do what they wishes everytime.they dont want to hurt bala(of course SIL) but can afford II's!
Now isn't that adding insult to Injury?
Remember the conversation Appa had with the Dude before he agreed to the wedding how II must be looked after especially during her pregnancy...Why was the matter not even raised when Bala insisted Akka get back to work?
When R&B did what he did for Vandhu or Periappa They did not gracefully thank him also but making snide comments how you can pull wires with money.
The dude may be worth 1000 crores he never acts that way prefers public transport treats his sisters and Vandhu alike
Appa spoke how II money should be hers...later with no qualms generously gave Bala to fit a bigger TV in his parents room and asked him to repay it to the Dude
When the Dude was returning to Paris due to set back at work his suggestion why can't both apply for a loan II earns 6 figures...I sometimes wonder whether he suffers from dyscalcula or selective amnesia...
It is the double speak double standard that annoys
I dont think it is wrong to have a conversation where the iyers put forth their views...it is the blame game and victim card that irks
