wahi tho...!!Originally posted by: dristi64NAMS
You are so right. My father and I were talking today and he said that ppl think they'll be happy with what they don't have. But once that is achieved, they hanker for more and forget what they wished for previously.I feel that Bala is a bit that way, especially since he struggles with finances.Paavam though. He's had it tough, too.
Originally posted by: jairathore97Lovely debate 😊
After thinking a lot, I think it wil be wrong to label it is correct or it is wrong.In what I have seen in my life is that there are many things which we can't measure with right and wrong or happiness and sadness, they are way beyond that, specially things involving relationships and human emotionsAlso what I have observed is more than self respect is fear, fear of society, fear what will others say, which is wrong but we middle class people are this only.
Originally posted by: moonwearerTotally agree Ashu...a stance could have been taken before or after the wedding but they chose to look the other way...the poor girl left money and took a loan and cringes to take his money...they think shes basking in all the comforts ...the Dude never complains of the lack of facilities in the iyer homes...to him being t matters more it is not things but people...Shravu is imbibing this quality example the water guns video game and i pad fights...the dude takes the Metro to work in Paris...Bala is unable to tolerate the heat one evening when the car breaks down...Why cant he take the Delhi Metro?...Dude is a real Prince and II the most lovely ...yet look at the way she gets treated the girl has been made to feel unwanted ...she shares it with the Dude ...when slighted she now atleast has him to comfort her ...just imagine her plight had she wedded an iyer as planned
Originally posted by: moonwearer
Nothing is entirely right or wrong but right from the Jaipur instance where Appa wanted to rush II to a Gync the iyer's have demonstrated lack of trust sensitivity and compassion to II. The dude has to earn trust agreed but humiliating her for choosing to marry the guy she is so madly in love with is not a crime...It is the attitude that is annoying...it is our actions that define our character our true identity...I find greater grace and nobility in the Bhallas with no hang ups about anything...the wedding onwards nothing blingy about them...ya they belong to a different class...thats how Subbhus mom and Ashwins mom thought of them too...
II was hurt at the way her Akka was viewed and has been consistent...you do not hurt your child/ sister as it hurts your pride...you talk to her i have no issues over that
Originally posted by: deepali.rockAshu and Sri.. So agree with what the two of you have said.. I have generally never had extreme opinions about anyone in the story.. But today whatever DII ppl are treating her is bad.. She's been insulted by them time and again.. You don't humiliate your daughter. They use her money for their benefit.. Use her car.. She runs around all day for shravu gets a burn.. Gives so much but all she gets is humiliation at their end. Bhallas are her family. Who adore respect love and care for her.. Iyers are being too radical and insensitive.. Go girl spend time with your dude.. Play with butter.. Sam tan dad and now even Manny. The minion.. These ppl care for her.. Go to them II No one cares in DII.. Having said this I don't even want her to be here on Tuesday.. Go do your work.. Take your hubby along.. But don't stay here
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