Originally posted by moonwearer
II more than anybody hurts about the class divide and often thinks she doesn't deserve what she has got...the way Ranjan is ready to make Vanditha director if she desires and the way he baby sits Shravu with Nandu...nobody treats them mean ...it is the iyers who are turning out nasty yes it is very very embarrassing to receive the gifts of the Bhallas as they have not accepted them as Sambandhis whole heartedly while they are looked upon as family by them.
If it was Shruthi instead of Baldi the discrepancy would be more visible...Maanvi should have sisters like the Dude desires else Bala's inadequacy would make him resent the Duke even further.
You can be firm in telling II no from the outset and sticking by it. But accepting her generosity even when it has pushed her to bankruptcy and taunting her thus...not ok...Vandhu chose to befriend Sam...Bala insists she works even when she is not able to...if affordability was an issue...Sorry to say this why have a second kid?
Somewhere it is a misplaced sense of pride...would Sree have eased Vandhus problem? How would the Iyers have cared for Periappa and paid expenses of Vandhu's delivery?
They know the girl cares so much and reaches out yet dont tell her anything of the illness as she was on a holiday. Which Iyer Maapilai will fly down and watch his wife slog like the way II does ? Treating her thus and the way amma questioned her over the phone and how they invite her for breakfast and start firing her right at the door after Vandhu making this demand is so unfair...she is the more immature in this instance...treating her sister the way she likes not even noticing II burn to feed her son
a perfectly put across point Sri
I have said this many times and will day it again
"Ppl never want to be happy about what they have and have got..
They don't want to acknowledge the goodness in anything that hurts thier pride or thier perspective of life...SELECTIVE VISION... I think another chapter in SoSy has the same title...where vandu proves it to appa that he is choosing to see only the wrong side of dude when his positive side is so evident
Same in this case... The marriage... There is some positive things about it and some negative things
But only the negative is being brought to the surface
Has anybody thanked the bhallas for thier simplicity understanding and support??
No..but appa called and showed his authority over things by questioning ranjan...why not limit your expression of hatred to match your expression if liking towards somebody too??
Human beings... They are so complicated because they complicate things
