Originally posted by Ashu25
I dont really understand why II is asked to LEAVE everything behind and go to her husband..
If I am not wrong its 21st century we are living in right ?
The same members of the family who were so proud of her achievements are now asking her to drop everything and just leave!!
Sam may not know it... But her parents do! Amma and Akka always being tough on her is not what I like. They are both teachers. They chose the job so they could get transfers like theid spouses. They did not sacrifice work!
II is now rich... She neednt work. She has everything at her feet at the snap of her finger... If this is what her psrents think then I dont really know what to say.
She may not really like this luxurious life.
She loves her place of work. Its her freedom to choose where she wants to work. Are people not snatching away this freedom of hers ?
And the various job offers she has been getting by her husband and FIL... Maybe she doesnt like them? How can you force someone to take up what they are not interested in when you clearly know how much they love their career in a particular organisation and a place?
She could simply drop the job... Find another in Paris in the same organisation is another argument... Bht Paris branch should be free right to accommodate an employee?
I am saying nothing against the HERO here. Am just venting what I have towards the situation in which II is
I am no feminist.
I am just sympathetic to her.
The moment she cried I could simply not wait and I typed out this.
I agree about the job part. Her work is as important to her, as his to him. She needn't compromise on that just because she earns less. She's worked hard to get there and she deserves to feel fulfilled doing it.
But the point here is why is she so unreasonable whenever the Dude calls? Can't she talk in a sane manner for once? She's forever disconnecting his calls, hanging up mid way, being snarky and provokes him. Whereas, all he's been doing is trying to reach out to her.
Yes, they both want each other in their respective cities. But the Dude is at least trying to find a way to talk about things. II is just being adamant and holding on to her mantra. A relationship cannot work out this way. It's not just about pining for the other person. One should wish to work on it to be together.
So agree with Hershey's posts today.