Nisha thank you for the amazing updates!!! Even though you are upset, you are coming thru for the rest of us who look to SoSy for some positive thoughts and comfort!!!
I wrote a very long note about cancer and surviving it... my mother was diagnosed with it twice and underwent chemo, surgery, and radiation, once when I was 9, and again when I was 18. At the end of it all, there is no rational explanation why shitty things happen to good people. We just hope and pray that hopefully at some point, we can find an explanation but there are no guarantees.
I hope that whatever obstacles we find in our lives or in those of our near and dear, we find the strength to move forward and fight till the very end, and help as many people move forward and fight also.