Originally posted by Nisha0604
Originally posted by swathi1990
To all the arrange married buddies here...
How do you say yes to a proposal...u talk to the guy for half an hour, may be an hour ????
Aparam kuda enaku solla theriyala...
Sooo many doubts...always skeptical...always trying to find something about the proposal which wont suit you properly...SIGH !!!!!
Love or Arranged...this getting married is becoming sooo difficult...
Are u getting rishtey hi rishtey?
YEARS AGO in Delhi's Karol Bagh area there would be graffiti like signs painted on bridge walls, and sides of buildings, of this company that did match making the old fashioned way
"Rishtey hi Rishtey call karen 577XXX (I think Karol Bagh area code used to 57)
So anyway onakku proposals varada?
Dont always find a reason to reject
I will say the following OK:
1. PHYSICAL ATTRACTION (People can mock me all they want where there is no physical attraction there can vere be a good marriage. Its NOT a friendship. Of course in an arranged marriage situation you cannot know what the dude looks like NUDE, but u should feel your heart race, heat rise up your cheeks the way the guy looks at you
2. Education, bank balance, job, criminal history, back ground check
PARENTS do a good job I feel in digging this up.
3.ex wife, affairs, AIDS, sexually transmitted diseases (I didnt demand
any of these, it was arranged, and over 15 years ago such resources were
non existent)While a sexually active guy seems "hot and desirable" it comes with a down side of being a carrier of scary shit
3. DOES he make u laugh?
NISHA OMG...it's rishtey hi rishtey...mil to le
OMG you remember...it used to be everywhere on the walls, on the sidewalks...if you took a train from delhi,these ads would start from before Agra...
Gosh, I Remember this so so clearly.