Originally posted by: Mr.PsychoTech
One doubt .Means I forgot this part need some one to remind.
I mean Appa would have also started somewhere his job right.
He was not in Delhi all his life.He came for his job and amma also came along with him.
I thing it would be strange conincidence both getting transfer at a time.So one of them made a compromise and made effort so that they will be together.
If other have been so peculiar about their job and place they would'nt be in same situation as today.That time no one said that he will leave amma .
Then how come it is becoming all wrong at a time.He was ready to send II away with another iyer but for him its a problem if it is RnB.
Like if he is taking II along he has problem (II has the problem ofcourse but it would be her decision in end) je will say seperating from home town and she loves Delhi.
If II stays in Delhi he will say he is going to leave her.
If RnB agrees to him and works in India again he will have problem and say growth in India is less other Iyers are earning well in abroad.
If RnB does buisness income is not steady.
If he goes for job JOB is not permanent.
I don't know about appa and amma's job changes its just an general assumption
forget Appa vikas R&B does no action for anyone else its what he thinks is right for him and him alone..
he lost putting himself in other peoples shoes the moment his mom died.
Getting married to an Iyer guy with phd living in Bay area is like eating idlis for iyer,
getting ur daughter married to a rich punjabi guy with a dad in scandal and who has had atleast 5 affairs is something my dad would never ever do so actually appa was super broad minded in getting his daughter married to the bhallas..
Inspite of living in a single bed house amma/appa took care of their inlaws in delhi and an anna who is challenged..
moving from south to Delhi for work was common, iyers didnt have jobs now folks live in chennai and bangalore..
i know families who did that,
vandu is watching her inlaws
R&B doesnt plan to take care of his dad bottom line and he is moving to Paris to resume his life and forget this, sold his stocks and so move on..its selfish.
The first solution for anybody is to identify the problem so the first problem for R&B is he is selfish and only thinks of himself , he hasnt forgiven/forgotten and is actually living a life like Laasya ..like laasya wants sippy cup she will cry and then folks will find and get it..
R&B continues to shirk his responsibilities and folks ahve to always understand his POV he wont do the same for his dad or appa or amma..He is actually a very normal dude he just has to think beyond his fence too
Edited by TanjoreGirl - 8 years ago
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