Originally posted by swathi1990
why do I feel that we are just biased towards II because we love her...
II has used much more hurtful words to R&B illaya...
Bala in his position is right...He has a kid who even after punishment does not understand his mistake...
II's practise of getting him more things is only going to strengthen shravu's thought...and II doesn't even understand that and she still wants to send him to a camp now...
Bala's expects that a little space between shravu and II will help shravu to understand the truth that "financially they are different and just becos II is married to R&B, it doesnt mean he can have all nandu has..."
may be this separation is good for the kid...becos if she now goes and sees the kid, he will still demand and she can't refuse...y to tempt the kid more ??
whatever happens between II and R&B they do tit for tat right they clobber make up infact R&B is the only person who sees her temper just like she sees his moodiness.
I am totally not against any form of discipline i am against BAlas way of talking to her..dont see my child,u are the cause ..she had booked it before the incident..
yenna seperation for a 9 year old... they dont get it Swathi..
i am not saying Bala should be all its ok about it all i am saying is why be so rude to II.. she didnt murder, in this case she did nothing..
Shravu took it because Nandu had 4 so from his point of view shravu didnt think of it as stealing..
i have a 9 year old they are really clueless specially the ones that live in animal land..
i am not saying what shravu did is right my point is he didnt realize its wrong and aunts are made to spoil neice and nephews through words and gifts.
My older nephew 10 years will refuse to leave my house , will hide his parents car keys will cry because he is very very attached to me i dont even spoil him but i just love him so if my brother told me dont see him because of u he stole i would be broken like big time broken
updated:
also IMO no aunt/no uncle/no grandparent/no teacher/no friend can be held responsible for your childs actions its ur responsibility and urs alone .. so according to me Mr Bala needs to thoda realize he took out all is lifes frustration on the easiest prey Shravu and II the rest he cant do a thing.
His brother,his parents , his wife toh he got his easiest scapegoat
P.S: this is what happens when you have husband giving u chai,daughter watching her 1 hour tv ,son in a science camp,MIL sleeping ,FIL reading .. you type away πππ
Edited by TanjoreGirl - 8 years ago