Software Symphony 21 Plan & Pilfer on 17 - Page 130

shareShare facebook twitter
Posted: 7 years ago
Originally posted by Nisha0604

Nivi you sound SHOCKINGLY real for someone so young. No offence to younger people I see many Desi 20 somethings... but you are something else.

I AM SO IMPRESSED with your thoughts

Yep Indian weddings have become a cheap caricature of Bollywood weddings . Even IYER weddings shamefully are copies of Bollywood weddings

When Amma tells me about nieces getting married and how the already long Iyer 3 days wedding is expolded into 7 9 day weddingswith MEHANDI AND SANGEET AND COCKTAIL I am appalled

I lament and cry "Ayyo Amma what are u saying SOUNDS SO UTTERLY CHEAP"

Amma wil be like "Neeyum naanum enna panna mudiyum What can you and I do? So and so Akka (a cousin of my Mom) or So and so Anna said  "The bride threw a FIT AND DEMANDED it"

I cringe listening to my Mom even say it

I am glad I am not attending it though

I was accused by someone not too long ago that I feed and nurture a "bunch of sycophants"  I AM THRILLED I DO

U sound very sane and real to me


Who I am today is a crystal clear reflection of my parents, their ideologies, and their upbringing. I am only as sane and real as I have been raised to be. There was a point in time where I literally hit rock bottom, so for me to be where I am today with all that I have is nothing short of a miracle. After going through what I did, it's tough to care about silly things like the the exact shade of blue that I want the wedding invitations to be or how many badam and pista slivers should go in each bowl of rasmalai. LOL I'm not at all saying that there is anything wrong with the people who do freak out about such things though...more power to them that they can do so and still emerge from the battle intact and unscathed. Tongue I'm your average desi 20 something Nisha, but I have just been through a couple of things that have given me the perspective and maturity of someone older I guess, nothing more than that. Embarrassed

I'm very glad to have found a happy hour where I can share my thoughts with a group of likeminded people. Innumerable thanks to you for hosting this daily party. Big smile
blue5sky Goldie
Visit Streak : 59 Days
Posted: 7 years ago
OK...ho gai subah ki masti Smile
I'm heading off for a sea side board walk in the macchar bhare swamps out here. Baad me milti hoon.
Posted: 7 years ago
I went back and read my reply...itna bhaari bharkam lag raha hai mujhe ab. Ermm 
How about you give an update Nisha and I will go back to some easy breezy comments about R&B-II? Smile
Nisha0604 IF-Sizzlerz
Visit Streak : 3 Days
Posted: 7 years ago
The only kind of battles I take on are the kind
1 Not pull weeds for a month
2 Not irin clothes
3 Clean the junk kitchen drawer
4 Clean garage
5 not answer toll free calls
6 set the alarm for 10 on saturday and not wake up



Life is too short to give up mysore pak and gulab jamun

Recipe bhej tennis ke baad banaoongi fosho
Posted: 7 years ago
I missed all the evening fun :-(
Nivi super impressed at ur attitude and Nisha me cant do without sweets either ..every night post dinner i have to have it ellati i cant go to bed..
No sweets= no life ... LOL

Regarding marriages please go to YT
and part 2 is hilarious

I havent laughed so much in a looong time..

i havent attended a single wedding in 15 years other than my sons poonal i miss the food Wink

update yeppo..

will Bala/vandu get koncham alone time ..pavam di avan ..
Edited by TanjoreGirl - 7 years ago
Nisha0604 IF-Sizzlerz
Visit Streak : 3 Days
Posted: 7 years ago
Not sure what she did, one of my friends landed up in ER earlier in the afternoon, she is home now I am told, I offered to make khichri for her, will take it in a bit

Acid reflux? Heartburn? God knows what... her hubby moved to Iowa and one kid is in college the other one is 7 she sent him to India with her parents. She is here all alone now.. she is a bit off... she tries weird diets and self remedies and practices strange rituals

I know I will be told "Her Choice"Big smile

Umm... as long as it doesnt land u in an ER, its "Her choice"Angry

On a lighter note...
She is my closest connection to Madhuri Dixit, her brother lives in the same bldg as Madz at Hiranandani and her bro's kids go to Dhirubai Ambani School like Madz's kids. So basically I know someone thats related to someone that knows Madz... jeevan safal ho gaya

Nisha0604 IF-Sizzlerz
Visit Streak : 3 Days
Posted: 7 years ago
I just turned off the cooker, off to write now... I didnt have much  green moong. I could only make one cup... the heeng smells divine... pata laga by the time the friend comes to go over to her place, maine khichri avakai pickle, and home made dahi ke saath swaha kar liya

I will buy some Campbell tomato soup and Premium? Crackers... I will say "Mere ghar light chali gayi" (though I cook over a gas fire)ROFL
Edited by Nisha0604 - 7 years ago
Posted: 7 years ago
Namratha... Anytime re!! 

Related Topics

doc-text Topics pencil Author stackexchange Replies eye Views clock Last Post Reply
Whichever ideal bitcoin software?

pencil KHMAA7   stackexchange 1   eye 106

KHMAA7 1 106 5 months ago Giome

Topic Info

52 Participants 1215 Replies 108592Views

Topic started by Nisha0604

Last replied by SAKIVIAM

up-open TOP