Posted:
9 years ago
"Life is not the way it's supposed to be, it's the way it is. The way you cope is what makes the difference"
Well, easier said than done . It's a cliche... There are days when we are up and then there are some when we are down. But how do we respond in moments of defeat and the ability to navigate the difficult times defines the person who we are. I am a firm believer in that.
For II, the solution was not in plain sight. She found herself in the middle of an ugly situation similar to between a 'cross and a sword'a situation which was beyond her control and she cannot change anything about it. There's a good old saying "damned if you do;damned if you don't ". So She chose to pick up the pieces and move on by impulsively shipping one to Manny not considering that what she's doing will not minimize the difficulty of the situation...
She just made it more difficult for her self and for those around her... She realised it's reckless , but it's done now. Ranjanji might be having one sleeping pill extra for a sleep that's not going to come to him tonight . Sam is going to cry buckets , II will be wallowing in self pity, defend herself , will later mop around , may be and R&B might have a couple more of Sam Adams and be done with it...
But then that's life ...life is a series of peaks and valleys and we just have got to hike through it or fall by the wayside in to the oblivion
