key is
only if
they are ready for it but my deal after having kids is i completely understand if someone doesnt want kids i actually get it
,earlier there was this notion kids take care of you when u age now its not that either its the joy and if you find it else where its fine .
I actually know of couples who dont want kids and are pursuing what they like travel,social service u name it and i think its wrong of me to judge their way and the husband and wife are totally in sync so that life is not bad too IMO they are leaving a positive impact just not with kids.
Bandhu vandu just cracked me up. I told Sonu it was a lame joke. But I laugh everytime she says it.π
I think people should only have kids if kids we they want them and are ready to let go of many personal things. Its a big responsiblity. Living in US has given me a sense of doing something for the community. People around me do much. And that has inspired me.
Have a great weekend, I might head to Philly to meet my frd (SoSy_Fan). So might miss reading some comments. And thank god 13 is over now.