Agreed!
We might hate her for being Pam the character, but we love her for being Ashwini and playing Pam so convincingly. The role demands for a variate of emotions and feelings, a certain body language and tone in her voice but also different layers of her character. Only a matured and senior actor/actress can play these kind roles and therefore Ashwini is indeed the perfect choice.
Her motherly love for Suhaani and all the other kids, her hatred for Ragini, her care for her brother and perhaps her hidden love for RK is what Pam is all about and yes Ashwini plays it with perfection.
Loved the way she emoted herself when she saw RK. This woman has sacrificed a lot just for the sake of her brother's kids. Yes she negative in a way and we still do not know reason for her hatred toward Ragini, but her voice and eyes gave it away when she cried in front of RK. At the end of the day, Pam is also a human being, a woman, a vulnerable woman who needs love and affection from her dear ones too...
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