Originally posted by Nisha0604
Originally posted by SAKIV-RAM
I don't know exactly but I believe we have a misconception that II is expressive.
It is just my opinion.
RnB does'nt speak much and it is his nature.But if there is any person with whome he speaks most it is II what ever their discussion might be.
II speaks everything but what is needed.
There is no proper point where she expressed what she feels for RnB to him correctly except when she is drunk .
Every time she banters and banters in her mind but she never spoke her feeling to RnB.
Same is RnB he never spoke the same.
II had insecurities she had got many chances to clear them but she never asked RnB about same.
But she choose to live in her dillusion that their marriage is temporary and RnB will leave her after few days.
But she is ignoring few facts.
RnB was supposed to leave after Lasys's birth he came as SAM called him for couple of months.
But II was the reason he stayed for more than that time and married her.
She was the person who gave prenup clauses.
RnB never had any thought over those except for what II gave.
II was thinking more about their seperation than to share his life.
She wants him but she is not focussing on that .Her main focus is on how many ways they can get seperated.
You definitly can't blame RnB for that.If he is not expressive in this relation neither is II.
It is not RnB who ahve insecurities.It is not RnB who thinks of their seperation,
RnB is just living his every moment with her.
When he is with her he just thinks about her but not the ways to get sperated.He don't think about sree or subbu.
Thats a GREAT point, yes you are totally right, we seem to be misunderstanding her jabbering nature for "Expressing her feelings"
Both are totally different things, she talks a lot but rarely tells him what she fears. What she fears about their relationship, and what she fears about Appa's position in their equation. Or her reservations about moving out of the country,
I will give her full points for telling him she doesnt want babies and she loves her job, but besides those things she is usually inexpressive , its like she is afraid, as if if she said something, she would hear something she is not prepared to deal with
Even a part of her married him in haste because she was sure Appa would get her married to a "suitable Iyer boy" if she delayed it any further. Its like WANTING THAT ONE THING, u know, we tell ourselves "BUS WOH EK CHEEZ MIL JAAYE"
my life will be set. when we actually do get it, we find, though the thing itself is mind blowingly good, it has opened up a million things you were unprepared for
@ blue - I think you are absolutely right...
II is this open book with the pages glued together.
I know RnB is not exactly behaving like a caring husband..but guy does care.
I do believe he has changed more - as a person - in this relationship that II has.
II's life and circumstances have changed beyond recognition for sure...but like you have pointed out later Nisha it is an equal relationship. Every relationship comes with a claim over your individual space...and these 2 " in love and lust" couple will get it soon I guess..
That I think is where you are fab Nisha..
nothing is black and white between the 2 they put each other in situations that constantly make them live on the edge. And douse all that they have inflicted on each other with loads of lust!
@ Red: Now that she has it..she will torture it to the best of her capability - like she does to Shravu - will never let her RnB move away from her if she can have her way and distance him when she chooses too emotionally.
Charming contradictions indeed
Looks live you have a number of Ashu clones now here