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Originally posted by: harshita27

Again... Am not sure if I ever mentioned about R&B being unfaithful... I talked about R&B's uncaring and casual attitude and II's mild reaction. I didnt expect "I love you" or "I am not even talking to her"..That would be defensive... All I expected was perhaps " you Ok II?" Or something like " there seems to be some confusion but M wasnt invited by me, if you feel not OK I'll make sure we wrap up soon" from R&B... ONLY coz he knows II fretted about this and feels depressed about this whole M business.

just wanna share an incident here.. my husband had an ex.. no she wasn't his girlfriend but a girl whom he was supposed to marry before me but dint.. they weren't engaged or anything but had spoken couple of times and had became friends.. and I came to know that they still talk to each other during the first month of marriage.. and i behaved exactly like II.. had my insecurities, angry but never ever expressed it.. my husband was like R & B.. he felt it was okay to talk to her and discussed abt her with me sometimes (which R & B dint do).. because probably because men feel there's nothing wrong in interacting with their ex.. they have invested their lives into their wives and it doesn't matter o them if their ex comes across.. they are indifferent towards them and expect the same from us.. So i personally felt that R & Bs and IIs reaction was normal towards his ex.. someday II will definitely express her dissent towards his ex once they are totally comfortable with each other the way I did..and R & B will understand the way my husband did.. lets wait for the day..

Originally posted by: harshita27

Again... Am not sure if I ever mentioned about R&B being unfaithful... I talked about R&B's uncaring and casual attitude and II's mild reaction. I didnt expect "I love you" or "I am not even talking to her"..That would be defensive... All I expected was perhaps " you Ok II?" Or something like " there seems to be some confusion but M wasnt invited by me, if you feel not OK I'll make sure we wrap up soon" from R&B... ONLY coz he knows II fretted about this and feels depressed about this whole M business.

Please dont give up so soon is all I will say, reactions occur, redemption happens... OVER TIME Hershey... he is a good man, it would be disappointing if people lose hope because he doesnt measure up to a yardstick you have in mind😭

He is quiet... not cruel or insensitive

Originally posted by: Ashu25

Agree 👍🏼

Edited by swathi1990 - 9 years ago

Originally posted by: deernav

just wanna share an incident here.. my husband had an ex.. no she wasn't his girlfriend but a girl whom he was supposed to marry before me but dint.. they weren't engaged or anything but had spoken couple of times and had became friends.. and I came to know that they still talk to each other during the first month of marriage.. and i behaved exactly like II.. had my insecurities, angry but never ever expressed it.. my husband was like R & B.. he felt it was okay to talk to her and discussed abt her with me sometimes (which R & B dint do).. because probably because men feel there's nothing wrong in interacting with their ex.. they have invested their lives into their wives and it doesn't matter o them if their ex comes across.. they are indifferent towards them and expect the same from us.. So i personally felt that R & Bs and IIs reaction was normal towards his ex.. someday II will definitely express her dissent towards his ex once they are totally comfortable with each other the way I did..and R & B will understand the way my husband did.. lets wait for the day..

PS: Its been 8 years and i laugh when i think about it.. I still bring her name sometimes when we fight.. i tell him that the woman was lucky she dint have to tolerate you..i am the one who is trapped..

Originally posted by: deernav

just wanna share an incident here.. my husband had an ex.. no she wasn't his girlfriend but a girl whom he was supposed to marry before me but dint.. they weren't engaged or anything but had spoken couple of times and had became friends.. and I came to know that they still talk to each other during the first month of marriage.. and i behaved exactly like II.. had my insecurities, angry but never ever expressed it.. my husband was like R & B.. he felt it was okay to talk to her and discussed abt her with me sometimes (which R & B dint do).. because probably because men feel there's nothing wrong in interacting with their ex.. they have invested their lives into their wives and it doesn't matter o them if their ex comes across.. they are indifferent towards them and expect the same from us.. So i personally felt that R & Bs and IIs reaction was normal towards his ex.. someday II will definitely express her dissent towards his ex once they are totally comfortable with each other the way I did..and R & B will understand the way my husband did.. lets wait for the day..

PS: Its been 8 years and i laugh when i think about it.. I still bring her name sometimes when we fight.. i tell him that the woman was lucky she dint have to tolerate you..i am the one who is trapped..

Deep, "Its been 8 years and i laugh when i think about it.. I still bring her name sometimes when we fight.. i tell him that the woman was lucky she dint have to tolerate you..i am the one who is trapped.." -  Edited by Ashu25 - 9 years ago

Harsh, Swa... lets burn this thread ab  Edited by Ashu25 - 9 years ago

Nish eager to read the reaction of R&B...

Originally posted by: Ashu25

Harsh, Swa... lets burn this thread ab 

I want naya update in naya thread...AAJ HI 🤣