Originally posted by Ashu25
Okay. Married folk, those in love please explain this to me.
You are alone at home/out somewhere like this and there is a fight between you and your partner, what do you do? How would you feel? Left out? Sit and cry for him to come and console you ? Throw fits? How?? How does the situation turn peaceful from being fierce? How do you guys break the ice?
Do you guys not feel weird that a guy you married like what a week ago and you are left here all alone with him to fight??
I dont know. I can only visualise and imagine situations and make up my mind I will behave like this in such and such a situation Like do you guys feel its his responsibility to take care of you . look after your needs, ensure if you are okay or not and not simply wander around the house like I own everything ?
each of our experiences are different but for me i didnt fight much with my husband till we had kids thats when the fights started.
before that there was no time to fight ,working and travelling and hiking.
so i feel i had this looong honey moon period..
overall whoever makes the obvious mistake generally will break the ice and like Nisha mentioned could be do you want some coffee ? and we are good to go
When i moved to US i moved into his apartment it was his job to make me comfortable in fact initially he cooked more too.
you dont fight in honeymoon :-) thats why its called that these two are different and make it a fun read.. remember they are from different galaxies so will need more time.
but for me these two are perfect the way they are ..