Originally posted by TanjoreGirl
each of our experiences are different but for me i didnt fight much with my husband till we had kids thats when the fights started.😆
before that there was no time to fight ,working and travelling and hiking.😆
so i feel i had this looong honey moon period..
overall whoever makes the obvious mistake generally will break the ice and like Nisha mentioned could be do you want some coffee ? and we are good to go
When i moved to US i moved into his apartment it was his job to make me comfortable in fact initially he cooked more too.
you dont fight in honeymoon :-) thats why its called that these two are different and make it a fun read.. remember they are from different galaxies so will need more time.😃 but for me these two are perfect the way they are ..
I remember we had been married for a week and one evening a few of my husbands friends had come over to our home for a cofee. There was this girl who continuously was assessing me and I felt something nag and her parting note to me I was damn lucky to be married to him. Alarm bells started ringing I chewed on it the entire night , did not ask him anything about it. He left for office and gave me a call at around noon to check on me( honey moon period, spouses are only sweet to each other) and the second I heard hello, I broke down. He was home in the next half an hour to pamper me and when I told him the reason for my bawling, he said he has felt that too and laughed it away saying "you cried for this"
I still bawl for no reason but he does not drop everything like then to come and pamper me.Now when we fight like cats and dogs and he is at fault, I get Cadbury nutties from him and when I am at fault, I make him a bowl of fruit cream. Now if you want the count, I think Cadbury nutties beats the fruit cream hands down .