SS 10 Josephine & M.A.C on 143 - Page 18

Originally posted by: harshita27

 If his past activity is the only thing that concerns her soo bad then whats with wont take your money, wont even take money from yur family's elders, you shouldn't buy anything for my family - not even the sweets n fruits that we'll take for them. How would shelike it if R&B had refused her family's gifts to him?? Even the gift ard that her Amma so lovingly gifted... What if R&B had refused that... Not like IIis seeing these gift giving in indian custom tiday... Its appears more like uncaring towards family's feelings more than the righteousness... We as readers know her thoughts but not the Bhalla family... So isnt it going to hurt them that whatever they give she refuses?

Originally posted by: harshita27

 If his past activity is the only thing that concerns her soo bad then whats with wont take your money, wont even take money from yur family's elders, you shouldn't buy anything for my family - not even the sweets n fruits that we'll take for them. How would shelike it if R&B had refused her family's gifts to him?? Even the gift ard that her Amma so lovingly gifted... What if R&B had refused that... Not like IIis seeing these gift giving in indian custom tiday... Its appears more like uncaring towards family's feelings more than the righteousness... We as readers know her thoughts but not the Bhalla family... So isnt it going to hurt them that whatever they give she refuses?

Originally posted by: swathi1990

Nish

I was just reading from the beginning...and found this chapter

I WOULD GET MARRIED AND HAVE HIM LOOK AT ME IN THE RED MADISAAR (9 YARDS) he would hold my scooped fingers... in a firm grip... ☺️

he would bend down... wayyy down to listen to the Vadyar (pandit)😳

He would wear the yellow/haldi dipped string on his right wrist and leave it on... for months😳

I would wear my mangal sootra lockets on the haldi dipped cord like every new bride...his arms would go around my neck for the millionth time (by then😉)😳

I would feel the tiny fore arm hairs... his eyes would be inscrutable like it is in public... always..☺️

The haldi  would stain my neck and it would stain his lips on wedding night☺️

I would smell like jasmine and chandan... he will smell like some expensive male cologne... he will stand patiently as Bala Athim ties the dhoti the traditional way😳

His flat abs displayed by the red and green bordered festive Iyer dhoti

He would wear a silver strap watch

When he would sit criss cross his knee would be on mine

ON TOP OF MINE... GENTLY PRESSING DOWN...☺️ like in bed☺️

He would hold my hand a second longer... he would feel my fingers a nano second longer during ceremonies😳

I wont have a wedding night... it would be a wedding NOON... ☺️ after the Muhurtam at 11

I wud be in his bed as soon as SOON he can drive me from Vasant Vihar Shankar Temple (Iyers get mnarried in the hall frequently) to Malcha Marg... 3 miles... he would break some speed limits😳

I will miss my wedding lunch and dinner... and breakfast...☺️

I just recalled the new chapters now .. You just made all her wishes come true 😊 😊

Originally posted by: swathi1990

Nish,

In this generation, 90-95% of people have a past...some flings,some serious, everything at different stages etc... and we all accept that before marriage...and decide that 'it is just the past' and we move on... So as a person who has seen this many times I cannot clearly relate to II..

Sure none of them I know have gone to the stage of living together (though most of the relationships I know are pretty much close to living together only)...but I just cannot understand what she is going to achieve by knowing whether she was in that apartment..

She can have her insecurities but voicing out like that is my problem...

My thing is that by asking these questions, she is not only hurting herself but also him...How many times can a guy take these questions ? That day she gushed to her mom that he didnt ask anything about subbu...May be it is time she gave him that space ??

Infact coming to think of it, as you said her insecurity is all about his lifestyle..she thinks that she is also temporary...and the only representation of his lifestyle for her is M...thats y she is going back to M always...I dont think it is jealousy but it comes out like that everytime..

Originally posted by: taramira

The way I see this is that unless she accepts RB as someone for keeps she will be unable to accept the usual trappings of a marriage. She does care for his family since she is naturally a caring compassionate person. By marriage she has gotten a new family and she will care for them but will not accept anything in return which will entrap her further into the unknown. 

RB has gotten into this because he had made a conscious decision and is making all efforts to be husband like...wants to have babies wants to take care of her wants to spend money on her...not so with II.  she has simply been swept along...like a tsunami. Just my take.Nisha when is the next coming? Had promised myself won't ask...BUT.

Originally posted by: Orangen

I know I agree my dear..
Are all u regular guys here?? I'm missing Asma... Haven't heard or seen her?
😭