Software Symph 7 "Not too long" 147 - Page 119

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Posted: 6 years ago
It is sooo cute of II to feel this way. Coming from a close knit family, she expects the same here..But I feel that she misjudges here... This split is not because they are wealthy.. It is not always the case that wealthy people are uncaring. Infact it was a fully functional family before the scandal. A totally loving mom who cooks for her son, a supportive dad who plays tennis and golf with his son... All this happened after the scandal... 
Today we might see a bhalla who is regretting and II might feel the sympathy. But I wont expect it from R&B or sam or manny. If I was in the same position will I be able to accept ranjan after the scandal.. The answer would be a BIG NO! Infidelity is something I can't take...NEVER... You could fall out of love...sure..But you should atleast respect the person enuf to get a divorce first...instead being unfaithful demeans the other person. So however you try to portray Ranjan in a grey shade and however much he regrets or loves his wife noe I just couldnt sympathize for him. I know that others who read this story may not like this but my stand will not change.
Posted: 6 years ago
Originally posted by swathi1990


It is sooo cute of II to feel this way. Coming from a close knit family, she expects the same here..But I feel that she misjudges here... This split is not because they are wealthy.. It is not always the case that wealthy people are uncaring. Infact it was a fully functional family before the scandal. A totally loving mom who cooks for her son, a supportive dad who plays tennis and golf with his son... All this happened after the scandal... 
Today we might see a bhalla who is regretting and II might feel the sympathy. But I wont expect it from R&B or sam or manny. If I was in the same position will I be able to accept ranjan after the scandal.. The answer would be a BIG NO! Infidelity is something I can't take...NEVER... You could fall out of love...sure..But you should atleast respect the person enuf to get a divorce first...instead being unfaithful demeans the other person. So however you try to portray Ranjan in a grey shade and however much he regrets or loves his wife noe I just couldnt sympathize for him. I know that others who read this story may not like this but my stand will not change.

See thats another can of worms Swathi

Guilty until proven innocent
OR
Innocent until proven guilty


She IMO is allowed to be caring and compassionate because she does not know the facts of the case, an intelligent smart girl like her will never say "Oh MERE PATI unki izzat nahi karte main bhi nahi karoongi" (My husband doesnt respect him so I wont)

So until the truth comes out she can be caring

If it exonerates him then she can continue if it implicates him then she can decide what her heart tells her


Posted: 6 years ago
She is immature  yet mature..silly and insecure..loves tantrums and attention from loved ones and is a full dramaqueen! But also, a sweetheart :)
Posted: 6 years ago
OMG.   Nisha u tugged at my heartstrings with this update...dad s always hold a special place in girls heart  n happy to see II  caring so much abt Ranjan n the contrast between her appa n her dad was very stark n heart wrenching 
Posted: 6 years ago
Originally posted by Nisha0604


Originally posted by swathi1990


It is sooo cute of II to feel this way. Coming from a close knit family, she expects the same here..But I feel that she misjudges here... This split is not because they are wealthy.. It is not always the case that wealthy people are uncaring. Infact it was a fully functional family before the scandal. A totally loving mom who cooks for her son, a supportive dad who plays tennis and golf with his son... All this happened after the scandal... 
Today we might see a bhalla who is regretting and II might feel the sympathy. But I wont expect it from R&B or sam or manny. If I was in the same position will I be able to accept ranjan after the scandal.. The answer would be a BIG NO! Infidelity is something I can't take...NEVER... You could fall out of love...sure..But you should atleast respect the person enuf to get a divorce first...instead being unfaithful demeans the other person. So however you try to portray Ranjan in a grey shade and however much he regrets or loves his wife noe I just couldnt sympathize for him. I know that others who read this story may not like this but my stand will not change.

See thats another can of worms Swathi

Guilty until proven innocent
OR
Innocent until proven guilty


She IMO is allowed to be caring and compassionate because she does not know the facts of the case, an intelligent smart girl like her will never say "Oh MERE PATI unki izzat nahi karte main bhi nahi karoongi" (My husband doesnt respect him so I wont)

So until the truth comes out she can be caring

If it exonerates him then she can continue if it implicates him then she can decide what her heart tells her



Very true Nish ! I never blame II here... She is in general very compassionate and she has always seen only the caring side of Ranjan and the ranjan who loves his wife. She doesnt know fully about the scandal. Tomorrow even if she finds that it was true, she might still forgive him because he regrets it now. Even then I would not blame II because she has never been with savitha either before or after the scandal. 
But she judging the family or R&B or sam is what I can't accept. The amount of misery they had to go through, the pain they saw their mother go through and finally the death of their mom can never allow them to forgive Ranjan. Sure even if sam's and manny's equation with ranjan has become better, it doesnt mean that they don't have that feeling in the corner of their heart.
Posted: 6 years ago
Originally posted by swathi1990


Originally posted by Nisha0604


Originally posted by swathi1990


It is sooo cute of II to feel this way. Coming from a close knit family, she expects the same here..But I feel that she misjudges here... This split is not because they are wealthy.. It is not always the case that wealthy people are uncaring. Infact it was a fully functional family before the scandal. A totally loving mom who cooks for her son, a supportive dad who plays tennis and golf with his son... All this happened after the scandal... 
Today we might see a bhalla who is regretting and II might feel the sympathy. But I wont expect it from R&B or sam or manny. If I was in the same position will I be able to accept ranjan after the scandal.. The answer would be a BIG NO! Infidelity is something I can't take...NEVER... You could fall out of love...sure..But you should atleast respect the person enuf to get a divorce first...instead being unfaithful demeans the other person. So however you try to portray Ranjan in a grey shade and however much he regrets or loves his wife noe I just couldnt sympathize for him. I know that others who read this story may not like this but my stand will not change.

See thats another can of worms Swathi

Guilty until proven innocent
OR
Innocent until proven guilty


She IMO is allowed to be caring and compassionate because she does not know the facts of the case, an intelligent smart girl like her will never say "Oh MERE PATI unki izzat nahi karte main bhi nahi karoongi" (My husband doesnt respect him so I wont)

So until the truth comes out she can be caring

If it exonerates him then she can continue if it implicates him then she can decide what her heart tells her



Very true Nish ! I never blame II here... She is in general very compassionate and she has always seen only the caring side of Ranjan and the ranjan who loves his wife. She doesnt know fully about the scandal. Tomorrow even if she finds that it was true, she might still forgive him because he regrets it now. Even then I would not blame II because she has never been with savitha either before or after the scandal. 
But she judging the family or R&B or sam is what I can't accept. The amount of misery they had to go through, the pain they saw their mother go through and finally the death of their mom can never allow them to forgive Ranjan. Sure even if sam's and manny's equation with ranjan has become better, it doesnt mean that they don't have that feeling in the corner of their heart.
Swathi u just said everything thing I feel abt Ranjan and the story arnd him and you said it so well Smile
Posted: 6 years ago
Originally posted by poorna3666


OMG.   Nisha u tugged at my heartstrings with this update...dad s always hold a special place in girls heart  n happy to see II  caring so much abt Ranjan n the contrast between her appa n her dad was very stark n heart wrenching 

Hi! Poorna

I am terrible at responding to posts

THANK YOU (FOR READING) SO VERY MUCH

I am happy you liked it, this will remain one of my most favorite parts of this tale for ever. What is it about marriage that makes us care like that for some one that was a complete stranger three months agoEmbarrassed


Posted: 6 years ago
Anu
Where r u ? Ur probably the most fav update is here. LOL I am sure you are going to cry buckets...come soon

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