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Hellooo Everyone!
Don't forgive her.
I hope you're doing well and enjoying a great day.
Now, I'm not too sure where the debate will stand and where things will go but this is the way *I* personally see it.
Rudra owes his mother nothing.
Not compassion.
Not love.
Not empathy.
Not Forgiveness.
We all know where this convoluted track is going: towards reconcilation, where Paro will attempt to bridge their gap- that's just the way Indian tellywood works, but that in my book is not realistic and definately not something I personally as a child would ever do it I was in his shoes.
The issue is that Rudra is obviously still emotionally invested in his mother: Hate and Anger can only occur when there was an positive emotional corrolation with the object of that anger. Love and Hate are still emotions, very volotial and powerful- they can be all consuming.
Some will argue that forgiveness makes one a better person. Hate the sin not the sinner etc. I disagree. Forgive and forget is not in my vernacular. I may forget YOU but I will not FORGIVE you. That's just not how I operate, and I think most characters should pick up on that trend.
Some will argue that forgiveness makes one a better person. Hate the sin not the sinner etc. I disagree. Forgive and forget is not in my vernacular. I may forget YOU but I will not FORGIVE you. That's just not how I operate, and I think most characters should pick up on that trend.
Forgiveness is not Mandatory.
Somethings are unforgivable; those who are capable of forgiving those unforgivable things- Kudos to you, you're obviously a better person than I could ever be, but in this case I must insist to Rudra:Don't forgive her.
To Dilsher:
Don't forgive her.
Find your happiness without her, you've lived too long stewing over her motives, crying for her, feeling pain and you've FINALLY started living, FINALLY started loving. BOTH Dilsher and Rudra are finally MOVING FORWARD. And this whole case of Forgive make amense etc is two step backwards.
Find your happiness without her, you've lived too long stewing over her motives, crying for her, feeling pain and you've FINALLY started living, FINALLY started loving. BOTH Dilsher and Rudra are finally MOVING FORWARD. And this whole case of Forgive make amense etc is two step backwards.
Forget her. both of you- simply Forget her.
Forgiveness does not equate to being more happy, IMO, it takes the burden off of the sinner that is for sure, but it doesn't change anything. Some relationships cannot be mended, time if anything makes the wound deeper to where it's simply better to cut of that limb rather than waiting for it to heal: because it can't. Time has only festered that wound, making it more painful, infecting it and to the point where you'd rather it be gone because it will NEVER go back to the place it was before, and it will NEVER serve another purpose in your life.
Forgiveness does not equate to being more happy, IMO, it takes the burden off of the sinner that is for sure, but it doesn't change anything. Some relationships cannot be mended, time if anything makes the wound deeper to where it's simply better to cut of that limb rather than waiting for it to heal: because it can't. Time has only festered that wound, making it more painful, infecting it and to the point where you'd rather it be gone because it will NEVER go back to the place it was before, and it will NEVER serve another purpose in your life.
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