Posted:
17 years ago
To me, shy people are intimidating. If I go to a party or in family gathering, shy people bother me. They just sit and listen to others conversation, but don't add anything to it. Unknowingly, they creat mystery about them. If you pass by them, you don't know what kind of reaction you would get.
Now shyness is different from being reserved. If you say that you like to be reserve in first few contact with strangers.....that's fine. It's normal. You shouldn't spill all of your beans in first few meetings. Getting to know someone is better...But shyness is a whole other story. Shyness is a negative quality. At certain point in your life, you should get over shyness. As we grow older, shyness should fade away.