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Todays topic is..........
"Where to draw the line when it comes to trusting online and offline friends (real life)"
All of us have online friends and off line friends. Who do you trust more? Why? how do you know how and when to trust people you never met? How much can you trust them? What are the risks of online friendships? Are off line friends always more trustworthy and reliable than online friends?
I know you all thought about this in one way or another. Now is the time to come forward and share your views. Lets see what our fellow I-F members have to say
I-F Dev Team
Edited by ~LiL*PrInCeZ~ - 17 years agoVery Interesting topic
All
of us have online friends and off line friends.
Who do you trust more?
Why?
Well, i hate a lot of friends,
both online and offline with a handful in both communities i am very
close to. But the fact remains, i have trusted some online friends with
secrets that even my offliner real friends dont know. And my online
friends have really really helped me soo much. Someone from IF i am soo
close to has helped me alot when i faced a very tough time in real life
and had no one to turn to. Trust is something that comes from the heart and it doesn matter whether u see that person or not!
how do you know how and when to trust people you never met?
As
i said trust comes from the heart and not the face! And its the fact
that they are offline that enables u to trust them. Because u know the
repecussions are little if u tell them something and they rattle it
out. The fact would remain, that u are in a position to listen or not.
However with the case of offline friends, u have to listen and face the
consequences.
How
much can you trust them?
Alot. To the matter of telling them stuff all my offliner friends dont and some of my most deepest secrets!
What are the risks of online friendships?
There
are risks with all friendships. The risk of making a bad choice,
getting cheates, being exploited, taken for a ride. But personally,
expectations are less from an offline friend hence the chances of
getting hurt decrease!
Are
off line friends always more trustworthy and reliable than online
friends?
No
not necessarily. Ultimately it depends of the person and depends on the
friend and more importantly U! if u are a good friend, chances are u
will find good friends who are trustworthy and nice!
nice topic again
cheers
sneha
"Where to draw the line when it comes to trusting online and offline friends (real life)"
All of us have online friends and off line friends. Who do you trust more?
i trust my some of my online friends a bit more than offline "friends", but then i do trust my offline frens too
Why?
i donno !! 😆 but i feel online frens are more worth of my frens than offline frens and i never had any problem with online frens till now (i.e in three yrs )
how do you know how and when to trust people you never met?
talking a lot helps !! 😊😊 atleast in my case it helped a lot !! and to trust a person or not is an impulsive reaction in my case ...... i do what i feel to do !! it hasnt backfired so i trust my gutt feeling in this area
How much can you trust them?
how much ever u feel like !! ......... i mean i do have a lot of online frens ......... but i do not trust everybody equally , some are close and some arent !! 😊😊
What are the risks of online friendships?
as such i guess there are no risks if the two ppl are genuine !! and u need to check for that ........ moreover we can ignore an online friend by just pressing a button if that person is troublesome ........ but cant do so with offline frens 😆
Are offline friends always more trustworthy and reliable than online friends?
hmm........ tough question ..... but i guess they are more reliable coz ......sometimes they do help us a lot (atleast in my case ) when offline frens couldnt !!
"Where to draw the line when it comes to trusting online and offline friends (real life)"
All of us have online friends and off line friends. Who do you trust more?
Well, I trust my online friends more....
Why?
simple reason..The online friends do not have any other agenda......there are no expectations in online friendship.....I can share so many things with my online friends, and they wouldnt go and tattle it to anyone😃..
how do you know how and when to trust people you never met?
Point is, none of us really divulge the most important secrets or troubles when we arent fully confident about the person's loyalty😃..Its not that I chat with someone today, and tomorrow I'm going to tell that person all my troubles....now hypothetically i have become bankrupt...if i share my tribulations with me real life friends, they might have many reservations..they might think that i am asking them for monetary help...besides, its really hard for real life friends to keep secrets especially relatives..confide something in them, and the first thing they do is go and tattle it to a third person, and my whole problem will be blown out of proportion by the grapevine🤢
How much can you trust them?
well, trust is something that has to won over by the other person...so their loyalty to you can help you decide as to how much you can trust them....
What are the risks of online friendships?
well, unless you arent dating someone online, and unless that person doesnt expect anything from you, i dont think online friendship entails any risk.....but if the person constantly pressurizes you to meet him/her in person,asks you for personal details like telephone number.house address etc ,it implies that that friendship is getting a tad risky....the biggest problem is the authenticity of the person.....
Are offline friends always more trustworthy and reliable than online friends?
YES..provided the online friend is a good one,......it varies from person to person.....many of the real life friends turn out to be the biggest knaves,and that can happen in the case of online friendship too.......
BOTTOMLINE:
WE SHOULD NOT STEREOTYPE OR GENERALIZE
All of us have online friends and off line friends. Who do you trust more?
Onnline & Offline😛
Why?
thera re very nice they care for me...
love me....
how do you know how and when to trust people you never met?
....
Now ...
A very good friend /sister of my is :Tumhari_Khushi
She talks very friendly...
She have no time ..
But still she she makes sigz for her friends ..
Thats why i can trust her 😊
How much can you trust them?
100%
What are the risks of online friendships?
no risks....
Are off line friends always more trustworthy and reliable than online friends?
........
Same answer as Nishi...
That's a pretty good topic for debate !! 👏
I think offline friends are more trustworthy than online friends. My reason are as follows :
a)we all have our definition of friend & friendship
b) when we make offline friends, we judge them on many levels ( e.g. facial expressions, etiquete, body language etc. ) and decide whether the person is eligible for my friendship.
c) if we find the person matching the description of friend acc. to our definition we start being free in its company.
d) meeting someone in actual presence makes a lot of difference in approach.
e) when making online friends we cannot be completely sure whether the person is honest or not, even if you are.
Thats all from me
Lotz of love , hugs & wishes,
Shipra
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