Would u call this a true friendship?

hey guys,

how r u all doing?

Wat if you and your best friend was in love with the same guy, and u know to your self that everytime u see both of them together u gets hurt. Would that be true to your friend?? Would your friendship be honest? Can a true friend hurt u like that?😊

Pooja...

i think if they were my true friend they would back off and both of us wouldn't date the guy or have anything to do with him. the guys not worth losing a friendship over Edited by kuch kuch hota - 18 years ago

yea never wanna lose a special coz of a guy

A true friend wouldn't go out with the guy unless she asks permission. Also a true friend wouldn't keep her friend from being with a guy who she likes 😉

This content was originally posted by: eZ

A true friend wouldn't go out with the guy unless she asks permission. Also a true friend wouldn't keep her friend from being with a guy who she likes 😉

You are right.

Those of you who say that she shd not go out with the guy because she is your friend, doesnt the same apply to you too?

Emotions cant be controlled. When you fall in love, yuo fall in love. IF she is a true friend, however, it means that she doesnt 'intend' hurting you. That is all there is to true friendship. Being there for you when you need her.

well...first i will ask the boy who he loves....if he loves me then i will tell my friend abt it and if that boy loves my friend then i am glad to leave them alone....
i wud really nt sacrifice him wothout knowing who he loves..... 😛

This content was originally posted by: eZ

A true friend wouldn't go out with the guy unless she asks permission. Also a true friend wouldn't keep her friend from being with a guy who she likes 😉

i agree with u 😃

arent we forgetting something here? the guy is not an inanimate object. his feelings also count. it depends on who he loves, and the other girl has to accept the situation. it has nothing to do with friendship or one girl doing a bad turn to the other.

Its fine that they guys feelings should also be taken into account. But at the same time, is a guy really worth putting your friendship on stake? An guy comes and goes, but a friendship lasts forever.

But again, if this is the given situation, I think all three need to sit down and get all their feelings out on the table. The more silent you stay, the more its gonna hurt from inside until you can't take it anymore. Be honest, be true to yourself and be true to your friend. 😃