Is it justified to think this way about a man who lives with his in-law ???? If no , why not ?
Originally posted by: TiN24
Plus, why is it that when the daughter is living with her husband in her own house with her parents we still manage to criticize? I mean look at Saat Phere and Piya Ka Ghar. Why do get so upset when we see that Aditi from SP and Jayanti from PKG are living at home instead of their inlaws?
There's no pleasing anyone. 😕
Originally posted by: hazelgirli feel after marriage..the couple shud live separately...no one living in anbody's parents house and hence no issues from any side😛
i agreee
We as society are too used to this theory of a man ruling a household, a man being the head of the household, and a man bringing money to a home, that it just seems abit awkward to see the same man living with their wives family...I think a man's ego plays a big part too. No guy with a go-getter attitude would actually wanna live in their sasural for more than a month. If they have a good job, if they have the ability to earn money for the family, then they would not want to be barden-ing anyone.
And one thing I realized is that the way a girl becomes close with a guys family, a guy cannot in a million year feel the same way with the girls family😕...There always seem to have a line when concerning the relationship of a damadh and their sasural😕
But most importantly, from the begining if the ritual was that a man has to leave his family and go to a girls house, then it would be all natural to us. Its all about how we are adapted to something. We are from early age are too used to the fact that a woman leaves her family...so now if the opposite happens we feel weirded out and immediately draw a conclusion of the man to be a looser😕😆
But I completely agree with Hazelgirl...after marriage, people should definitely live separately...if nothing, it will save them money from buying frequent aspirin
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