Hatred larger than life - My thoughts

Today's episode once again showed that her hatred and ego is much larger than life and happiness of her son. She knows very well that Viren's happiness lies with Nivedita and still she wants him to divorce Nivi. I was always under the impression that love defeats all and has the ability to conquer hearts..What are these CTs trying to show and tell us? I will not go in the direction of their thinking. I will think what I have felt and experienced so far in my life and let me tell you - LOVE DOES CONQUER HEARTS.

Episode begins with Sood's and Sharma's talking about what happened in past couple of days. I am glad all are safe and I was happy to see NT dadi there too. Thank god, HL repented... There is a saying "der aaye durasat aaye" and "subah ka bhoola agar shaam ko ghar wapis aa jaye to use bhoola nahin kahte". And as usual our Nivi forgave them. It was nice to see all of there and praising Nivi but it was going over board. I would have preferred if they had scolded Nivi too for taking things in her hand instead of involving them or police as what she did was not the right way. I get it that she put her life at risk and we should praise her for that but then she needs to know that she had taken law in her hand by selling confidential information of a company, by risking other lives, by giving in to demands of a goon who is a murderer, by not informing law officials etc and the list goes on. This is the part that I did not like. This was wrong on CTs part to show that you wil get praise even if you are wrong. And what about Viren who actually got hurt? Not even 2 words of praise for him that you were there to save your wife and in turn you got hurt...What the hell? Viren Sood teri to kismat hi kharab hai. sab kuch achha karta hai phir bhi family se koi praise nahin. I was not expecting praise from Nivi's side for Viren as there is no room for thanks/sorry between husband wife... yes there always is room for communication, interaction ...i would have liked to see that and during that conversation sorry, thanks is OK.. Nivi should have given credit to Viren too in front of family as it was because of him that they all were fine and safe. Jab sab itni tareef kar rahe the Nivi ki to ek line bol sakti thi ki nahin yeh sab Viren ki wajah se hua hai. Agar woh nahin pahunchta time pe to pata nahin kya hota... CTs ka kya chala jata agar yeh dialogue add kar dete to.. See, they got time to add Viren's dailogue "I am proud of you Nivi". my foot...

Chanchal's momentary concern for Viren was not enough for me to show me that she really loves him. To me her hatred for Nivi is bigger and important than happiness of her son. She is more pissed that everybody is praising Nivi and now even her husband is praising Nivi. She cannot say why they are not talking about herself that is why she says "maar khaye Viren aur tareef karen Nivedita ki." Arey, Nivi Viren koi alag to nahin.. they complete each other.. Usko gussa is baat ka hai ki Niveidta jaisi mamooli ladki jo na to sundar hai na to akal hai, uski tareef ho rahi hai and uska hi beta uska pati hai. She has been defeated by Nivi and that is what is bothering her and she is not able to digest the fact. I was amazed to see changed JW.. I was like woah... He is praising his DIL??? If he can change then why not CC? CC's character has always been consistent and her hatred has not changed since day 1.

I was not satisfied with the small night scene of NiVren as it was not at all meaningful. There was no talk between them, no discussion about what happened, how it happened etc. No concern from Nivi's side but she was more worried about CC. Atleast is last week mein to thora kuch communication dikha dete creatives?

Morning and breakfast time and here comes our dashing Viren all ready to fight another battle. I wish him good luck as I do not want him to lose this important battle of his life - battle with his own mom. Nivi again worried about CC, asks about him and with her eyes asks Viren to go and find out. The whole interaction between CC and Viren was good. CC is very good when she portrays her anger. Viren handled her anger very well. No need in losing the temper as that will only complicate matters. So Viren listened to what CC had to say about Nivedita and he beautifully explained to her that she is important to him as is Nivedita. They both have their own place in his life. One cannot be compared with other. One is his mother who has given him life and other is his life.

I appreciate CTs showing us this part as it is very close to reality. Once in a while all married males go through this phase when they have to keep this balance between mother and wife. It is difficult for them to please both the ladies but they have to do it. And that is what Viren did today. He loves both of them and love has many forms. These 2 forms are very different but still they are called LOVE. CC takes advantage of Viren's love for her and blackmails him... Why cannot she see his happiness is Nivi. She should give up her hatred for Nivi and all will be happy. Can she not see how pained he was hearing her demand? His hand wobbled and I am positive he will not say anything to her and will just leave from there. He is not going to shout or yell...He will keep this pain inside him now. CC will instigate Nivi and will tell her because of her she lost her son and she never wanted Nivi to be her bahu and would want her to leave Viren.. This time I want Nivi to tell CC in no uncertain terms that I love Viren and I will not leave him.

There really is no solution to this problem - the only thing they can do is keep a balance. It is very hard for a mother to let go her son to another female and then it is hard for a wife to share his husband with anybody else.. So, I guess all 3 parties need to strike a balance.