Thank you all the most sweet people 🤗. You all are so precious 😊.
Thank you Hope and Koolsadhu to explain about "Aurat" to me. See, such
are the small things which can get anyone in trouble if they are not
well versed in a language . All this time I did not know how to express this world clearly I think. But thanks to you, I know now 😉.
Oh these are the days when more ceremonies will be there towards my
sister in laws wedding. My mother in law wishes to collect all the
rituals in her memory and others memory who are more well versed
according to her, and celebrate 😆😃. It is so nice 😊.
It takes amazing amount of time in India for the completion of a
marriage. But I think the boy is a well behaved, educated and sincere
person (did not seem to have any bad habits or personality traits), and
he will be a good match to my sister in law. I can hope wholeheartedly 😊.
Yes, I can see why so many terms for woman. Different Indian language settings? Ancient and modern language. So complex 😳 but I will learn the best one enough to be able to communicate with my mother in law 😃. For him I must make him a Polish Poet 😃😳, ofcourse I will speak to him Hindi too 😊, surprise them with my Hindi 😉.
I think you can come close to sensitive (often much formal) relations
such as between women to women, specially with someone from another
background if you can get to communicate in her language. I know how to
cook few Indian dishes too 😉 (although he is a better cook in that, but I am good in some Polish recipies, you know Pierogi by any chance?).
Archana seems to have become a complete mother hen to sisters who really
are not too concerned about her. I did not see Manav from the
beginning. I came India just some months ago, and even initially I had
no idea what was going on in the TV with everyone so glued 😆. But my sister in law was very helpful 😊, my first friend in India infact 😃. She explained the complex scenario, and her emotions were so visible 😆😃, what could a girl do but not be interested? 😃. Yes I sure am interested 😉.
Manav's behavior seem to be hurting many , but be patient 😉.
I think the story is trying to get out of a situation it created to
make it interesting. Now to do that they are slightly lost where to put
the balance. In such a condition, they are trying to adjust the main
characters with each other. However, it seems that while they are trying
to handle one, they are letting the other go. Maybe they cannot find
synergy? 😕.
In such situations it seems that a very good strategy is to close the
doors and sit inside for the couple. They sit and drink tea/coffee, and
not open the door. Till they review their lives, list their priorities
through a sound discussion, analyze which way they are going. This is
what I really believe in. In this process, they need to cut off all
those extra issues which might seem of utmost importance and too big.
Sometimes when we bring a few unnecessary matters too close to our lives
(or get involved in them) they seem so big that nothing else can be
seem. So best to remove those matters for a while and move away, so that
a better image of the life and people can come. This will help them
know their environment where they live, so that they can take the right
steps. 😊
I think, they could just forget all the problems, begin thinking from
the first moment they met each other, how they married, forget the
madness in between of Archana, again think how they reunited (without
thinking why they separated), then think about how they are treated each
other, and then each others parents (with balance). Then list what they
really should be doing. Then go for an effort, talk with Manavs
parents, as well as Archana's parents (with them no need to talk, as it
seems everything is solved as per their relationship with Archana's
parents). After they solve this. They can share them sentiments with
Manavs parents and they can give support for further solutions. I am not
bringing Satish here, because this would be total review of Manav and
Archana for their lives. Otherwise, mess creates more mess. One bad
gives way to another, while one good deed is the predecessor of more
good deeds. Life works in an inertia, it is never static I feel.
Oh and yes, about the language 😆. My in laws are from Delhi! So little ancient Indian? (as it is north I think). Polish though don't come from Latin 😉, it roots to ancient Slavic languages 😊.
I did my graduation with English classes, I wanted to learn this
language, but I am not really so perfect specially I sometimes miss the
"D" 😃.
It is very common in Russian, Ukrainian, Polish, Czech, Slovak and
former Yugoslav people to miss some words of English, I mean
pronunciation. But that is when I try to speak fast 😃,
I dont miss so much. I think in Indian language, most of the words can
be pronounced perfectly and no problem for any word or alphabet from any
language (in terms of pronunciation).
Thank you for this so much really 😊, maybe you saved me from something bad 😆.
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