This content was originally posted by: anusarkar
Underlined. I have never said that i hate indians and I hate the family set up. I have 2 sons and they are both half indians and have indian names. They do not have american names. And i still use my maiden last name and not my husband's family name. What i said was my personal wish that I never want to marry an indian and never want to live in a joint family. i was raised very independently and my views are independent as well.
I accept that you have never said you hate Indians, but saying and I quote
"If this is the mentality of most of the indian women Mili ,I am sorry India will always be a third world backward country. And I thought women in india was progressing. This is not progression ,this is backwardness. India will never change.
There was a time I promised to myself that I would never marry anyone indian or live in a joint family with in-laws. I have always dreaded the fact of family politics and cheap sentiments. I am happy that my decision was right."
doesnt give me the impression you have a lot of positive things to say about Indians either..
It is a flagrant generalisation and not one I would expect from an educated woman, or man for that matter, to display such sweeping ignorance. It would have even been more acceptable if you had said "in my experience" before proceeding to tar Indian men or Indian joint families....
As for family politics and cheap sentiments, it is equally far too convenient for you to assume these go hand in hand with marrying an Indian or living as part of a joint family.
All relationships with any form of family involve politics and sentiments, cheap or otherwise....
We do not know each other and you do not know me as a person .As a matter of fact i am a nice person and an excellent custodian of law.
Agreed as to the former, as to the latter i couldnt possibly say.....
When I express my views ( except on some occasions when I post law materials) in the forum I am expressing them as a fellow member and not as a lawyer. When you say I am bashing a fictional character its kind of funny . Everyone in the forum is attached to the characters and its a normal emotion. When I say i hate a character i always try to mention that it is the type of person i hate. And I hate criminals.
I have noticed that you have a personal problem with my posts. You don't even know me. Thats odd .Anyways i have made friends in the forum although when i started participating I came out to be very intimidating
Anyways i have seen you bashing me personally. Nothing is personal with any forum members.
Anu
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