Gopi over stepped her bounds - Page 2

I totally agree with you. Yes, what Ahem did wasn't right. But again, what Gopi did wasn't right either. She is shown as a cultural girl who abides by all laws. Unfortunately, this is where things are going haywire. Edited by ladydivine - 13 years ago

yes gopi over reacted just b'coz ahem   helped didn't mean that he loves her

hi everyone! I'm commenting for the first time here, though ive been reading your updates.

I'd just like to mention a ew things here:

1. Although Aham is in character in this particular episode and he din't like what Gopi had done..does that mean he has the right to belittle her in this way? Could he not just have told her.."listen i'm telling you this for the last time..don't ever repeat this?"
2. They've lived together for how many months..people even begin to understand the servants in the hse..n he has seen gopi's care & concern for everyone..n her naivety shines through each time..being a big business tycoon that he is he cant tell the dierence when someones putting on an act or its a genuine show of concern?
3. He has grown up seeeing his father not stand up or his wife (koki) shouldnt he have learnt something from that and even more so that he saw how that hurt his 'mom'?
4. Koki is full of her 'sanskaar' and all that but what kind of upbringing is this that she has taught them to respect people but to belittle those you think are beneath you? Hetal might be the one just going round smiling all the time but atleast shes taught Jigar some good manners! Aham and Kinjal are pathetic in that area.
5. Finally, I agree with you all that however badly you might have been traeted in the past n you might have 0% self-confidence but you learn from your mistakes and who are your friends and oes..it seems Gopi is not only stupid but plain dumb..the CV's need to give her character a thorough shake up!

Please comment..

Shelly i agree with your analysis of Aham and Gopi,  100% correct aham character has not changed, but our buddo Gopi  takes everything the wrong way, i was upset with yesterdays episode ready to quit the show but after reading you post i will still watch.

Its time cvs change Gopi character, and also its time for her to leave, but why wait before the wedding.
Edited by fanbidaai - 13 years ago

@ Tammie, I was waiting for your comments!   I too only blame the CVs for creating this drivel ... they are trying to pass off a pathetic character as "traditional".   I was very empathetic towards Gopi and in some ways tried to be the voice of the my inner Gopi on the forum.  But even a monkey learns but the CVs have ruined her character for me and I can no longer relate to her.  I couldn't believe they had her create that scene yesterday.   On the other hand Aham was still the same Aham from day 1 a hard nut to crack.  T

@bubble - totally agree her behaviour is completely passive aggressive.  Leave the guy alone he is going fall for you.  Don't misread his signals!  

@Tammie - yes the happily married older women comment was about us.   Although I only admit to slightly older ;  )

 

Originally posted by: lovtv

@Tammie - yes the happily married older women comment was about us.   Although I only admit to slightly older ;  )

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I agree with you. I just think everyone is tired of seeing Gopi hopelessly in love without getting a single sign from Aham that he may one day in the next 30 years feel the same about her..

Gopi definately needs character building into a strong self reliant woman but as long as koki restricts her to housework it's never going to happen. Koki choose gopi because she can manipulate her and knew she can never take her place where her son is concerned, I very much doubt she will educate her after the kinjal affect. Cv's have killed any chances of gopi trying to improve her self right there. The fact is koki picked the wrong girl for ahem on purpose to make sure her own importance in ahems life is never less no matter how unhappy he is with the decision. Koki realised there were problems and attempted to fix it but the fact is gopi and ahem are poles apart. Gopi needs to be brought to ahems level to even get him to really appreciate her.