Gopi over stepped her bounds

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Posted: 12 years ago
When I read Sadhli's update earlier I said I was quiting the show and was completely sure that I wasn't going to watch until they fix this show.   Which was actually going to be never.  

But the tricky people at SNS posted the epi on IF too early and Aham looks so good in the black suit, white shirt and no tie, that I had to watch just to check him out.  Sorry girls please don't throw things at me because I am kind of on Aham's side on this one.  Here are some reasons:

- So Aham looked at Gopi when she was wearing a green sari - he is a healthy young man.  They look at beautiful women.  It doesn't mean anything.  Happily married older women look at young men too it doesn't mean anything.  

- So he looked at her gratefully when she helped him after his allergic reaction during the house painting incident.  He was thankful that doesn't mean he loves her.

- His mother manipulated him so he dandiyaed with her.  It is a romantic and beautiful dance and he was in character...that doesn't mean all of a sudden he loves her.

- He is a compassionate person and when he saw her in pain at diwali he helped her and put a bandage on her hand.  She was in pain he was sympathetic.  At what point did he do anything to indicate that he feels any more for her than compassion?

Aham has always been in character, it is Gopi who has misunderstood everything.  All this time all he has done is told her to back off I don't love you!  You are not my equal.  Every dialogue he said was true.

He has done NOTHING that should have inspired her to decorate his bedroom in rose petals and candles?????  What was Gopi thinking???? What did she think he was going to do after she set up his bedroom for a suhaag raat (wedding night) ???  If I was Aham I would have yelled at her.  She has done nothing to inspire love in anyone.  All she has been so far is a very good servant of the house, a doormat!  Again and again he has told her to stay away from him but she doesn't get it.

Koki had the right idea...play hard to get.  Stay away from Aham.  But Gopi has done everything to throw herself at him:
- she has fasted for him.
- she is running around wearing his favourite colour.
- she is getting him steam.
- getting him water when he coughs
- picking up his towel
- washed his laptop.

I don't know about you guys but I don't see anything that means falling in love.  Again I repeated I would have yelled at her too.

Sorry but I am with Aham here!  

*quickly ducks as projectiles are thrown at her*
Edited by lovtv - 12 years ago
Posted: 12 years ago
no projectiles from me... i said as much in one of my other posts....
and i totally agree with your analysis...

if i could advise Gopi... i would ask her to get a life.... she has opportunity now... in her free time, she can ask Hetal to teach her instead of moping all over the place... she doesn't need to get her toes in everyone's business... if she doesn't meddle... her simple answer could be.. i am unaware of it... and i am not interested in thrusting my unwanted nose in others affairs... but no... she has to become Mother Teresa
Edited by upasana.diya - 12 years ago
Posted: 12 years ago
Thank Diya!  I was really afraid I was going to have to take a shower after that post from all things thrown at me.  

If you watch the last scene where she is cleaning up the room and being really hard on herself you know that the CVs are setting up for one day Aham making up for everything he said today and making her feel bad.  

The story is pretty weak but at least they, the CVs, stayed true to what they have given us so far. 
Posted: 12 years ago
Originally posted by lovtv


Thank Diya!  I was really afraid I was going to have to take a shower after that post from all things thrown at me.  

If you watch the last scene where she is cleaning up the room and being really hard on herself you know that the CVs are setting up for one day Aham making up for everything he said today and making her feel bad.  

The story is pretty weak but at least they, the CVs, stayed true to what they have given us so far. 


i don't know about one day Shelly... if i were in Gopi's place
1st - i won't make any gesture towards Ahem and let him stew in his own vile juices of self-importance
2nd - even if i do something because of his mother and he accuses me... i'll say go talk to your mother and stop bothering me.. i am not ur wife....

i am more angry at Gopi than Ahem out here... Ahem is out and out jerk and Gopi is simply Gawar... not as in illiteracy or intelligence... but because she can't use her intelligence, even if the sky falls...
Posted: 12 years ago
The one day is very far off.  

I blame the CVs for making Gopi so stupid.  They have forgotten that she was supposed to be smart and don't allow her to use her brain.

The show is still stupid.  I just meant by this post that Aham reacted appropriately.  
Posted: 12 years ago
Originally posted by lovtv


The one day is very far off.  

I blame the CVs for making Gopi so stupid.  They have forgotten that she was supposed to be smart and don't allow her to use her brain.

The show is still stupid.  I just meant by this post that Aham reacted appropriately.  


@Bold - totally agree with this...
he hasn't accepted Gopi, not by word nor any gesture... so what gives Gopi the right to interfere in his life... she was the one who took back her vows, though it was Koki who asked her to do it...
and why should we blame Koki... does Gopi always follow Koki... doesn't she use her brains the other times... and if she is following Koki's orders... shouldn't she follow them to the letter...
Gopi is so contradictory...

the only thing we like about her is her innocence... such innocence does not exist anymore... so if CVs are having some outlandish ideas... in the same way a big-hearted Samaritan could exist... can't he...

sorry Shelly... i am disgusted to call Gopi one of us right now and am going all guns blazing out here
Posted: 12 years ago
Don't worry Diya,  I am with you there.  They have ruined what we loved about Gopi by making her not just uneducated but stupid.
Posted: 12 years ago
Originally posted by lovtv


Don't worry Diya,  I am with you there.  They have ruined what we loved about Gopi by making her not just uneducated but stupid.


hey on a lighter note.. do you know full form of STUPID.... you won't use it for Gopi if you know itWink

Smart Talented Unique Person In Demand... STUPIDWinkLOL

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