im still new to this Tamil section but i do catch Idhayam sometimes when my mom watches it
so after seeing recent episodes, I have been very shocked with Shankar's behaviour. I know he is upset and thinks that Nandini cheated on him, but the way he's acting seems very immature and negative. He doesn't even seem to want to give Nandini a chance to explain herself, and is listening to what everyone else has to say.
I was extremely upset after seeing his jail conversation with Nandini. It was quite sad that he asked her to abort the child, but what saddened me even more was the way he was talking to her. It was very impolite and rude in my opinion. To be honest, I've lost the respect I had for him.
Was this the same Shankar who walked out of his house after his dad decided not to include Nandini's name in the family business?
anywayz, back to topic...
For once, I want Nandini to become a strong and independant woman. I'm tired of her trying to do good for others who barely seem to care about her. I'm also tired of her trying to run away from her problems and letting Shankar trample over her. I want her to become something like the lawyer Bhagavati in the show. I want to see a Nandini who makes decisions for herself, follows her heart, and reaches a top position in society. Eventually, Shankar would find out the truth and come running back to her. When he does, I want her to reject him right on the spot.
I know that sounds a bit mean, but according to me, if she takes him in right away, he's not really going to understand the pain he had inflicted upon her. If she refuses him, then he will try his best to win her heart and trust back again.
Constructive criticism is welcomed, and please do comment.
Agree with you supercool - it is unfortunate that all Tamizh serials demean women, show them as door mats - far far away from reality !!! But they claim that they are glorifying women - irony, isn't it??
Not just Nandy, supercool, even Dr.Kallu needs to realign her thoughts. Can not understand why she is trying to force Shanky to live with Nandy !!! Why can't she encourage Nandy to get a life of her own??? This thaali sentiment is really yucky !!! Edited by rojapoooo - 2010-04-28T21:22:24Z
@ rojapooo - you can call me Vithya or V
well seeing from Kalyani's POV, she believes that women should be with their husbands in order for them to be respected. It's sort of the way society has been established , especially with the thaali sentiment. That's why even today, some women are forced to remain with their husbands, even if they are bad. But it's sort of ironic too because she's also separated from her husband. I understand she cares abt her DIL, but she should try to fix up her own problems first Edited by supercool3 - 2010-04-29T06:28:36Z
As long as brain washing girls by "marriage is the be all and end all in life " such atrocities will continue. It is unfortunate that even the "so called" emancipated women can not think beyond this outdated concept !!! Edited by rojapoooo - 2010-04-29T08:00:18Z