I'm surprised there are so many supporters of a man like Angad in this forum. Its like ppl have amnesia about all the abusive things he's done.him and his family have treated Sahiba inhumanely at times. He drunk misbehaved with her- thats sexual abuse. Him and his family told her she can't work - thats an infringement on her basic rights. Yet all his crimes were normalized as his conditioning or his personality and now he has screwed up by confessing to wrong woman, yet people are supporting Angad. He's allowed to do anything in anger and pain but if Sahiba is too emotional and won't listen thats too much. Double standards much! She didn't bother to embarass Seerat in public because she thinks Angad is reciprocating her sister's feelings and that has her completely shattered, angry, hurt. She is not in frame of mind to talk calmly
VJ may be a good actor but that doesn't mean Angad as a character isnt full of red flags. Sahiba is called out for not revealing her sister, mother actions but Angad is not called out for supporting the archaic ideals of his family. Atleast Sahiba didnt endorse their behavior and told them they were wrong in being greedy and lying but Angad has the same pathetic ideologies as his family about khoon/khandaan/status the place of a woman in the home as just a home maker and nothing more. He only chose to support Sahibas education for his own image because he wants his wife to be a graduate not because it will qualify her to get a good job. He chose to give Sahibas shop back because he was responsible for the fire. He has made Sahiba feel insecure and given mixed signals to her and is paying the price for that because Sahiba no longer can trust him and therefore left. He has done many dubious things with Seerat that make it look like he has residual feelings for her. And thats not fair to Sahiba. It's cringe to expect Sahiba to be ok with him being overly close and "friends" with someone like Seerat. He is only in love with Sahiba now because he has seen that she can make sacrifices for the "family" and that reasonates with him. If she toes the line, he loves her but if she doesn't, it takes him 2mins to say- get lost, i don't care, dont come back. Waah.
And why is there an expectation that Sahiba should support Manbeer. What has Manbeer done for Sahiba other than treat her poorly? She still helped Angad Manbeer patch up but Manbeer only sees her negatives. But she forgot all of Seerats kaands and will support her. Waah!
Manbeer CHOSE to stay with her cheater husband. She lacks self respect. Whats the kid Simran's fault? Why should an innocent kid grow up as an orphan because Manbeer has a problem?! She lived with inder despite knowing he cheated her so she can live with Simran too. If she has a problem , she can grow a spine and leave or she should have sent both Inder and Simran packing because Inder screwed up. No body including Manbeer was ok with Inder leaving with Simran. She still wants him alone to stay in brar mansion. Why?! He was anyway an absentee husband and father to Manveer and Angad. Why was the kid getting punished by getting sent to an orphanage. Sahiba only stood up for Simrams haq. She's little, she was scared after what happened in the orphanage and she's got no other family so Sahiba stood up to everyone to ensure Simran would be safe. Inder cheated but Simran is innocent. Sahiba never defended Inder or expected Manbeer or anyone else to happily accept Simran. But she expected that people will be mature enough to not punish a child for elders screwing up. And she ensured that ultimately. Infact Manbeer is also now quiet because she knows she has escaped jail because Angad/Sahiba didn't expose her crimes. Manbeer committed a crime by getting a child kidnapped. Yet shes gone scot free for it. Infidelity is immoral but kidnapping is also a crime.
Manbeer deserves all the pain she gets because she's a classist, arrogant, stupid woman. And Inder deserves to get cirrhosis and die of liver failure for the kind of scum he is. Kisi ka saga nahi hai vo.
Angad has inherited the worst qualities of both his parents. And all his redeeming qualities can pale in comparison if he doesn't get his act together.
Edited by Pinecone - 2 years ago