Originally posted by: anshvi
Did Veer ask Mishti to choose the ring of her mom's choice ? Nope ! It was Mishti's decision and not Veer's...Also he did get her the ring that she loved...Veer's mom didn't force Mishti it was othet way round! Mishti pressurised his mom to make a choice for her
But Mishti did feel that she needs to do so. Mishti did feel that she needs to please his mother. You need to understand the scene properly. All Mishti was trying to do was to please Veer's mother.Also Veer is not an antaryami that he has to understand every unspoken word Mishti...communication is a huge part of a relationship and MishVeer communicate with each other well
Mishti expressed her fears and Veer consoled her
When you are in love, you don't have to be antaryami or anything. You can pick up and guess the stress by your beloved's behavior. But then again Mishti is pretending to be okay and perfect in front of him.
Again physical proximity explains that they have been in a relationship for a long time...Also it is people who are assuming that Mishti isn't in love...let the writers let Mishti tell the same.
Being physically comfortable is very different from being in love. Love doesn't always develop gradually, it can happen in an instant.
Right now from what has been shown Mishti is so comfortable with Veer that she not only expresses her deep rooted fears with him but also is comfortable enough to kiss him and profess her love
I repeat, being comfortable with each other and having physical proximity is very much different than being in love. Love isn't about being comfortable and you don't need to be physically involved to express love.
Mishti kissed a stranger and informed Veer who was not at all jealous..in fact knew her so well that he told her that she must have missed someone on the cheek...just shows how much trust he has on her and is sure of their relation
I have said it before, Veer's trust on Mishti and his understanding regarding the kiss situation cannot be called love. Trust is a part of a relationship, just a part.
This shows that they are happy with each other...They understand and trust each other
Understanding is not love.
As of now they are shown as a happy commited couple who are going to get married soon
Are they really happy or they just think that they are happy. That is to be seen.
May be juzzbaat can mean more than commitment to some but not to me...if this was the case then even Nandini Kunal were right...even Kunal could have said that Mauli is perfect but not perfect for him.
I believe that Kunal and Nandini were right. I have mentioned in numerous posts that Kunal and Nandini were right in falling in love. They were only wrong about keeping Mauli in dark. They should have told Mauli about their feelings, Kunal should have confessed to Mauli about his feelings for Nandini first instead of starting an EMA.
You have to understand that a relationship requires both love and commitment. A relationship can't operate on commitment alone. Why are we subjecting Mishti in a loveless relationship? Wouldn't it be an injustice to Veer if Mishti marries him despite being in love with Ruhaan?
I feel commitment and love both go hand in hand...love is much more than sparks and attraction coz they fade over time
A relation can work if there is love, understanding and trust...It can't be based on fatal attraction and sparks cos that is not love but infactation
And you think that what Mishti and Ruhaan will feel for each other is plain attraction? It can be but then it cannot be as well. That again has to be seen in future. What if Mishti and Ruhaan find true love in each other? Will you still subject Veer in a loveless and meaningless marriage with Mishti, knowing that Mishti will never be able to love him as he deserves?
If Ruhan was not Veer's friend it would be wrong but he is his friend which makes MishAan even more wrong for me coz he will be breaking his friend's trust
What kind of logic is that?😆 If it is wrong then it will be wrong in any case. What will be crueler? A heartbreak or life-long pain? A heart-break from which Veer can move on OR the life-long pain of being tied to someone who doesn't even love him?
Now writers will surely give reasons to justify MishAan but like I said I can't root for them coz they are not the kind of couple I would want to ship
Just because you don't like it then it doesn't mean that in cannot happen. You are free to ship who you want but that doesn't mean that it is going to sail, that it will actually happen. Same is the case with MisHaan; they might not happen.
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