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Posted: 7 years ago
#11
Plus, maker's one more fault is showing Nandini as a victim of an abusive marriage.
Somehow, I believe that victims who gone throw hell will not try or even wish to repeat the same to another person.

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Posted: 7 years ago
#12

Originally posted by: arshi_asya


Royal ignore- That's the hardest thing to do. 😆 😆

i have been in madhubala forum.

So i know the ways.


i wont give 2paise bhav to posts i dont like

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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: chirpyhapibird

nice post.

i believe
say what you want to say.
Sometimes agree to disagreee.
Give royal ignore to what you dont like.



I agree , royal ignoring is the best
😆

About the topic
Agree on every thing
Physical beauty has nothing to do with true love
Because true love is from soul to souls
It doesn't look for one's body or dance
It won't lustful ( certain amout of lust can be there though )
It won't depend on how well one make kheer, gulab jamun , dum biriyani etc

Rather

True love stands with you always ,happy or sad
It doesn't look for faults
It will endure sufferings for love
THE MOST IMP ... IT DOES'NT HURT any one
Love will not claim a person
Love fear nothing ...( not hiding )

EMA do happen but not because of witnessing one dance , special
Dishes ...or not by satisfying males ego
...
The treatment and betrayal of a best friend make this serial a joke

It makes a mockery of friendships , marriage and Love itself
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: chirpyhapibird

i have been in madhubala forum.

So i know the ways.


i wont give 2paise bhav to posts i dont like


This is the first time I am in a forum like this only because I likes the plot of this show. I don't watch shows for actors, I watch them for story & plot. I have been in many forums & people strictly talk about the characters of the show. We don't even remember the actors name while talking about the characters.

I am active on many forums even now, but I don't see this going on there despite the fact those actors too have a huge fan following.

I don't know what's with defending an actor. They haven't hired us for this. Besides, makers hardly ever look at the IF, they are most exposed to sentiments on twitter or Insta maybe. Besides, it's no 1984, where people used to worship Arun Govil because he played Ram.

The forum is to discuss the show & various aspects of it.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: arshi_asya


This is the first time I am in a forum like this only because I likes the plot of this show. I don't watch shows for actors, I watch them for story & plot. I have been in many forums & people strictly talk about the characters of the show. We don't even remember the actors name while talking about the characters.

I am active on many forums even now, but I don't see this going on there despite the fact those actors too have a huge fan following.

I don't know what's with defending an actor. They haven't hired us for this. Besides, makers hardly ever look at the IF, they are most exposed to sentiments on twitter or Insta maybe. Besides, it's no 1984, where people used to worship Arun Govil because he played Ram.

The forum is to discuss the show & various aspects of it.


Then you have no idea about anything.
you are lucky😆


Edited by chirpyhapibird - 7 years ago
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Though I agree with you, I don't think actors knew what a disastrous job Writers would do with Kunan's characters and esp Nandini's character now in recent episodes. Not just their character but Kunan's love phase and journey too which they have done horrendous job which is the reason most can't connect nor understand. DD knew signing EMA show which is fine as EMA happens, but she didn't know the horrendous job they would do with her character to completely ruin her character. And no it's not ruined because it's grey because even grey characters have been accepted in the past and extremely liked by majority as they had reasons which audience connected with , felt and understood and they were greatly defended as most audience was on their side in few great grey characters. But here Nandini's character isn't written well nor shown well for audience to connect and relate to like previous grey characters. Most can't even connect with her so how will the character would be even liked? It's hated not because it's grey but because because it doesn't make sense, ruined and you just feel disgusted by the character to even like or see. And we don't even know if Cvs think it's grey because the way they are showing is as if Nandini is Devi, victim, saint and all. 🤢 For them she's most likely a white character, in fact.


It's only DD's performance which is pulling of off so far, but sadly Cvs are ruining all her work. It's their job to write a character and the journey. That's why I hope DD has a talk with them or something :/
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: arshi_asya

I agree with the most.

But I think problem is in both Kunal & Nandini. Neither of them put up a good fight & that's the makers fault as they didn't show any of them putting up a good fight with their feelings.

The moment Nandini steps out of house, Kunal runs behind her to confess & Nandini accepts. That was the hasty track. The realization of feelings of both of them was too hasty. They should have atleast built a friendship between the two & let Kunal discover more of Nandini as a person.

If Nandini-Kunal were shown to put up a fight why did Kunal run behind her at all. He should have lived few days without her. Then comes Nandini who suddenly forgot certain things, if she decided to leave, then why exactly the moment of weakness especially when the situation is very complicated.

So, saying again, it's not only Nandini. It's both & moreover, it's the makers who have miserably failed at the execution of this.

I honestly don't understand why makers are in so much haste about starting a full-fledged EMA anyway. This has caused abrupt discord with the show which was going so well in the beginning.

As you already highlighted- Execution, that's the dept. of makers.



Yes dear both are at fault. Marriage & friendship r 2 sacred relationship where trust & loyalty overrides everything else. I may fight with my hubby but I ve absolute faith in him. Tomorrow if a girl who looks like Aishwarya Rai joins his team & is friendly with him I will not ve any prob coz I trust him absolutely. I cant even imagine a scenario where that trust is broken. That day ll truly shatter me & I dont think I ll ever recover frm it. I ll never trust any1 ever again. So for 2 ppl to break that pact & do something like this needs a v strong screenplay.

There was a wonderful tamil movie Pudhu Pudhu Arthangal by the legendary Balachander. Its about 2 married ppl who fall in love but the way the story is written is so sensitive & lovely that way back even in the 80s ppl were actually rooting for these characters & wanted them to break their respective marriage to be together. Wish the CVs had shown something like that
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: evenjleena28

I agree with majority and specifically with execution failure.

I don't think only Nandini is to be blamed here for this disastrous affair. Kunal has pushed and pushed her and when she finally decides to leave he comes running and she gives in - that was horrible but then to actually help that guy to hide and feed your friend whilst poisoning her life is just not done.

I think a build up was needed. I knew this was going to be an affair story and that's cool but do it with sensitivity. Had they shown either to be implulsive, hasty and not someone who always thinks of others then this track would make sense. Two good people committing adultery needs better substance.

Rain dance and love, that is almost a joke.



Basically the CVs 2 trying 2 ride 2 boats at the same time. On 1 hand they want 2 show EMA & on the other they dont want ppl 2 hate the leads. In that case either they s'd ve shown a strong reason for the EMA or simply gone broke & shown Kunal & Nandini as 2 selfish ppl who think only bt themselves. CVs failed on both fronts.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: ...Nihara...

+1

I was thinking the same and fail to understand how the people calling it True LOVE and trying to justifying it even now.They are behaving like there is no one other than K and N in the show and they selectively ignoring other character's feelings or if should say clearly rather ignoring their existence of other characters in the show at all 😆. Its ok do whatever you want assume yourself whatever you want but how can they even expect the same from the other people and questioning their POV😕.She have no guilt or remorse anymore after she agreed his proposal😕.Even an absolutely black character feel guilty if they betray their friend who had gone beyond her limits to help the friend.But here she is blushing and going with the flow without a iota of thought about Mauli😕.I don't even feeling angry on her as the writing is so pathetic that i can't even relate or understand her character to feel any feeling or angry.I am just laughing at their writing and going w*f seeing Nandini's reaction and in a wierd way i am getting entertained seeing two lame characters😆It is irony that we have to explain our POV to make them understand😆 when it is clear whats actually going with the characters in the show and in a way it is hilarious too😆



In Silsila AB & Rekha were lovers bef AB had to marry Jaya due to circumstances. So they had the audience sympathy. We c'd feel their pain & helplessness. Here there is no such valid backstory for KUNAN.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: -JaZ-

absolutely agree with ur every word...

agree the show has become more cringe worthy due to nandini, till Kunal was feeling for her n trying to overcome it one can at least justify it that the show itself was promoted about extra-marital feelings n as the tagline says "juzbaat kabhi sahi aur galat nahi hosakte" but once Kunal proposed about his ghatiya feelings to nandini due to nandini already expressing her feelings indirectly n nandini shamelessly accepting Kunal's proposal forgetting there was someone called mouli in this world nandini's character has reached lowest of low and the show no more about juzbaat but ema aur ema kabhi sahi nahi hosakta so the viewers calling even a spade a spade has started sounding like bashing posts to some...



I fail 2 understand tis obsession to force ppl 2 like/accept Nandini. This is never gng 2 happen. Its never easy 4 audience 2 accept the OTHER WOMAN & sympathize with her unless the story is really convincing like the tamil movie Pudhu Pudhu Arthangal that i spoke bt in an earlier comment.

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