Originally posted by: ashwariya_98
Experience difference ab bhi hai unke beech. He already guides her better in practical issues. And she guides him better with emotional issues. He literally explains her alot of things. For eg, Anokhi was being studpid fighting with a random girl wasting her energy telling her how she was ragged and molested. And the girl was just laughing. Shauyra came there and told her to not waste energy on such ppl , and save it to prove a point in front of the committee. The aay he handled Anmol and made him confess. The way he handles the situations are commendable many times. The way he proved Anokhi innocent infront of college authorities. There are many such points where Shauyra's advice to Anokhi was on point. Even during riots, him explaining her to leave was correct. We see him being so much mature compared to her.
But he's a complete mess when it comes to dealing with his emotions and that's where Anokhi gives him stability and perspective.
The fact that Shauyra explained Anokhi what a date is , highlights their age difference. But that's their magic. He does have more knowledge of the world and that's his usp. He will keep guiding her. Even his advices are spot on
I agree and I really love that he is able to guide her since she has not seen the world,
She is naive and his protectiveness for her is what attracts me to him.
But when I say he treats her as an equal, I mean he should not take decisions for her/ for them without having a conversation.
As long as he respects that she is brining in the equality in emo matters and acknowledges it , it is cool.
But you know, IRL also, so many times, older men will be like-you are a kid, you do not know , I know better so that is why we will do this. That is not fair.