13 Mar: WU: save suhaana from MIL torture - Page 7

good finally ekta devi mere update thread mein aa hi gayi🤣

Originally posted by: MadameX

Tum kuch zyaada Ilesh ke khilaaf hote ho...saw many posts of yours maligning Ilesh...maybe you have a more severe case of liking Ilesh than our Resham ji does?? 🤣🤣🤣

Originally posted by: Sachi16

Renu... I feel your pain sista... 😉😆 Since ever I have joined.. more than Year I guess... I have been here on IF... fir bhi... I am still a Dazzler... 😕😆😆

SO, I guess we have no caliber to match Ekta in this... 😉 🤣

I don't mean to brag (secretly I do 😉) but I reached retirement withing three months, I think. 🤣🤣 Anyways, Renu had the excuse of only writing one-liners but what excuse do you have Sachi Ben? 🤣

By the by, congratulations, Renu!!! 🥳 I'm going to miss that beautiful teal color next to your name...it helped make your gandi-ness a little less gandi because it's just too beautiful. 🤣🤣 But it's okay...red is alright too. 😉😆

Originally posted by: Sachi16

When I tease my Mom saying... You are too calm person, never shouts on anyone... what if your bahu will be all Loud and difficult to deal with... [I have a younger bro]

My Mom always answers me slowly... I will not interfere... Me and Your Papa will live Alone... and let your Brother handle his life n wife... 😉 She says... I can't fight with anyone you know... so, I will avoid the situation itself...😊 and I am not execting anything from this generation's DIL 😉😆😆

Even I asked my mom how she would handle her DIL for my younger brother...she said by then she'll be so old, she won't have energy to do much...plus, dad will be there to take care of things...since my dad is a bit scary. 🤣

But I told my mom that if her DIL ever does anything to hurt her, I would seriously take my rights as nanaan and pull her hair and straighten her out. 🤣 My mom said, "Then I guess I will always know who to blame for ruining the family." 🤣

Originally posted by: shilu999_balani

dont worry Sheema...you will learn thru experience...i have with my two DILs

my funda...dont be a MIL be a friend...then no problem...follow the rule "you give me mt space and i will give you yours"...then absolutely no problem at all...😃😃😃

Saasuma, I would be very wary of a saas who would say that to me...my policy will be to never take any relative (ie, family, in-laws, etc) as friend...one should treat MIL and FIL as mother and father but also be careful that they're not going to take advantage of you and hurt you as well. In my experience with interacting with a variety of people, I always found that it's best to always keep a certain distance in all relations.

Originally posted by: md410

good finally ekta devi mere update thread mein aa hi gayi🤣

what is it rano ka out burst or BM ke double standard or disha ki supporting nakaara hubby

I remembered today was your update day so I took time out to be here. 😃

So what exactly is your question to me? 😕🤣 Are you asking which one I like? 😆

@ Ddhi: I have to warn you...things might get ugly later if you do this too much...our Resham ji will not accept this too kindly. 🤣

Originally posted by: MadameX

Saasuma, I would be very wary of a saas who would say that to me...my policy will be to never take any relative (ie, family, in-laws, etc) as friend...one should treat MIL and FIL as mother and father but also be careful that they're not going to take advantage of you and hurt you as well. In my experience with interacting with a variety of people, I always found that it's best to always keep a certain distance in all relations.

Originally posted by: MadameX

I remembered today was your update day so I took time out to be here. 😃

So what exactly is your question to me? 😕🤣 Are you asking which one I like? 😆

@ Ddhi: I have to warn you...things might get ugly later if you do this too much...our Resham ji will not accept this too kindly. 🤣

Originally posted by: Sachi16

Maate... aaj kal kya khate hai aap... 😕😆 😆

Agree with you bold part... the only thing I want to add is... "If the initialtion is not done by in-laws.., Being younger, It's always helpful if you show your respect first to your in-laws by making them feel your own... most of the time, They will reciprocate the same way... by caring you as daughter... "😃

@ bold: Sachi dikra...one of these days I had to grow up...I am blossoming into a mature, bright woman. 🤣🤣 Don't be so jealous of my maturation. 🤣🤣

@ rest: I agree with you. Everyone, anyways, deserves basic respect as humans.

I hope they do not brush the issues under the carpet again... BM, no temporary patches please, we want a permanent fix.. Though I kind of feel sorry for Suhana, I am glad Rano told BM whatever she did.. BM needed to hear that..