I didnot like mother slapping Rudra :( - Page 6

Originally posted by: jaya100

I have a family member who has seen active service and a distant relative who lost his life in active service. I have the utmost respect for the way in which the families of army personnel conduct themselves in times of loss.

If the mother had been shown giving this reactions say a day later once the initial shock had worn off then I'd say the whole scene was inappropriate but at this point this woman is in the early stages of grief and isn't being allowed to see her son's body and this was her way of handling it. I'm not saying it was right but there can't be a code of behaviour attached to any parent when they actually lose a child no matter how much they should have been prepared for the possibility. I guess in that scene I just saw a grief stricken mother and at that point it didn't seem to matter whether her child signed up for this or not.

Originally posted by: arsneh

while watching d scene i was thinking d same as it was d first time shown a shaheed's mom is crying over his death and blaming and cursing his seniors
don't know whAt other felt bt i felt it as degrading a shaheed's family

Originally posted by: -PD-

see i am not saying mothers out burst is wrong... when a mother sent his son to battlefield that itself show how much courageous the woman is to send off his son to fight keeping his life in danger...

they wonot keep hopes until their son comes back from the battlefield that is known fact as anything can happen there

when she comes to know about his sons death, she may react but not like what writers showed yesterday... how can she blame his son's senior management for sending her son to the battlefield... it is straight away insult and mocking of the courageous women who send their sons to battlefield

Originally posted by: _DarkLady_

the question is if she is in her senses... she had just lost he child... for humanity's sake... she is not supposed to behave normal... she had lost the son she had carried in her womb for 9 months, a son whom she had taught how to walk and talk... how do you expect her to be in position of understnding anything? why will she mock a woman who is the reflection of her own-self, why will she mock a lady who has send her son to serve for the country just like her... she is in trauma! not everyone is strong... she is not as strong to accept the fact that her is no more... so? she is a human... she had sent her son to army, that doesn't mean she had abandoned all her emotions!