Why can't Zoya choose? *impt*

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niharika

@nihamrm

Voyager

Posted: 12 years ago

#21

"This is all your fault. You are the one who suggested I marry Tanveer – so this is all your fault!
man i can totally imagine that
and it would be fun to watch all this happen
You should join the CVs you know, you're an amazing writer

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friendsall

@friendsall

Voyager

+ 2

Posted: 12 years ago

#22

Originally posted by: chicksoup

Friend,
Thanx..😊

I am CPing from my reply in Ankie's post:

On why he did not let her go if he intended not to marry her... well not at short term, but may be long term, and since this was at short notice...and he has to think in Zoya's best interests...Does he think a better future awaits Zoya with someone who can understand her better, rather, someone who will not hurt her the way an unreasonable love has tormented his mother...that was the reason he refused to speak into the laptop...and the reason he let her go when she decided to leave before the coin toss...the reason he rushed to the Airport was because he had humiliated her and pushed her into deportation- something she did not deserve. The only way he could make it up to her then was to put the ring on her...diff was that he really felt that moment, yet he tried to digest it later...

Again, he tried to convince himself and 'cherish' the feeling of being engaged...yet he wants Zoya to shut up and reiterates the fact that it was namesake only...

well dear all i can say is "if at all dey both sit n have a talk rather than bickering, all der probs r solved"...i know ye itna jaldi hoga nahi kyunki its a soap n wat ll remain if everythg s solved!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!😆

Yes i truly agree with ur point

"the reason he rushed to the Airport was because he had humiliated her and pushed her into deportation- something she did not deserve. The only way he could make it up to her then was to put the ring on her...diff was that he really felt that moment, yet he tried to digest it later..."

also der personal ego and d fear of rejection s not allowing either of dem to have a clear vision!!!!!!!!!!! shaayad aaj hume "woh actually" hi milega asad se...😆

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440733

Hibernated

Posted: 12 years ago

#23

Why cant Zoya decide?

But she decided hasn't she? She has decided she wants to be his fiancee and get him to admit his feelings. She has decided to stay back ONLY for him.

However the motivation behind these decisions are very unclear- Has Zoya actually realized her own feelings? Is she is ready for such a big commitment? Is she actually serious and ready to face his feelings or this is something fun for her?

Now see this is where the actual problem comes. They NEVER show Zoya's true feelings and what she actually thinks, there is not much depth to her inner turmoil because her thoughts are always centered around AAK and not herself. She jumps back quicker than a frog after being in dangerous, life threatening or devastating situations. They show her being effected for one episode and that's it! I mean the girl was kidnapped, forced to get nearly married, buried alive and then later find out her father was truly dead, etc. yet after a few episodes she is back to normal and her entire attention is on AAK.

The only thing I can conclude from all this is Zoya is an escapist, she doesn't want to: confront her own feelings and actions. She much rather lock up all the bad stuff in the back of her mind rather than sit and think of it. But considering how Hung-Go she is about getting Asad to admit his feelings for her that makes my conclusion seem wrong.

Another point is that Zoya has made AAK's opinions more important than anyone elses which is not a good thing considering how bipolar he is. She lets everything he does and say affect her so easily which is understandable as she loves him. BUT this makes her seem as if in regards to AAK she has no backbone and can forgive each and every thing he does, I mean when was the last time we saw the girl seriously be angry at the guy without it turning comical?
She also keeps running after him trying to get to admit his feelings and understand his POV.

Its great that Zoya is so forgiving and understanding but AAK takes it for granted and continues his Akdu behavior because somewhere in his mind he knows she feels the same so she wont leave him willingly and if he just asks she will come. And it is true, she lets him off the hook way too easily.
She doesn't get the fact that there is a limit to being so forgiving and understanding. If she doesn't put her foot down and get serious, he ain't gonna take her antics seriously. Im not telling her to corner him like Dilshad but more so take the decision herself, if he cant admit it AT ALL then stop, tell him she is tired of his hot n cold behaviour, give him the space he needs and focus on her own life.
If she sticks to her decision, treat him no different than others, he will come to her himself.

A little indifference goes a long way especially with guys like Asad.

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chicksoup

@chicksoup

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+ 4

Posted: 12 years ago

#24

Originally posted by: friendsall

😆 It is a soap.. the bubbles will come and go...😆 Until one day...the soap is over and we are left with the memory of a wonderful love story.😆

Why Zoya does not come out: There is no way she can. Every time she tries to have a peaceful talk, he runs away...😆

Why Asad hides?: 1. She is not his ideal girl, and in order to accept her, a part of Asad has to die- The Tanver part.

2. More important: He fears the uncertainty of love- it is an emotion he cannot control- he cannot let his love hurt Zoya!😊

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chicksoup

@chicksoup

Sparkler

+ 4

Posted: 12 years ago

#25

Originally posted by: Rin03
Why cant Zoya decide?

But she decided hasn't she? She has decided she wants to be his fiancee and get him to admit his feelings. She has decided to stay back ONLY for him.

However the motivation behind these decisions are very unclear- Has Zoya actually realized her own feelings? Is she is ready for such a big commitment? Is she actually serious and ready to face his feelings or this is something fun for her?

Now see this is where the actual problem comes. They NEVER show Zoya's true feelings and what she actually thinks, there is not much depth to her inner turmoil because her thoughts are always centered around AAK and not herself. She jumps back quicker than a frog after being in dangerous, life threatening or devastating situations. They show her being effected for one episode and that's it! I mean the girl was kidnapped, forced to get nearly married, buried alive and then later find out her father was truly dead, etc. yet after a few episodes she is back to normal and her entire attention is on AAK.

The only thing I can conclude from all this is Zoya is an escapist, she doesn't want to: confront her own feelings and actions. She much rather lock up all the bad stuff in the back of her mind rather than sit and think of it. But considering how Hung-Go she is about getting Asad to admit his feelings for her that makes my conclusion seem wrong.

Another point is that Zoya has made AAK's opinions more important than anyone elses which is not a good thing considering how bipolar he is. She lets everything he does and say affect her so easily which is understandable as she loves him. BUT this makes her seem as if in regards to AAK she has no backbone and can forgive each and every thing he does, I mean when was the last time we saw the girl seriously be angry at the guy without it turning comical?
She also keeps running after him trying to get to admit his feelings and understand his POV.

Its great that Zoya is so forgiving and understanding but AAK takes it for granted and continues his Akdu behavior because somewhere in his mind he knows she feels the same so she wont leave him willingly and if he just asks she will come. And it is true, she lets him off the hook way too easily.
She doesn't get the fact that there is a limit to being so forgiving and understanding. If she doesn't put her foot down and get serious, he ain't gonna take her antics seriously. Im not telling her to corner him like Dilshad but more so take the decision herself, if he cant admit it AT ALL then stop, tell him she is tired of his hot n cold behaviour, give him the space he needs and focus on her own life.
If she sticks to her decision, treat him no different than others, he will come to her himself.

A little indifference goes a long way especially with guys like Asad.

Rin,

This is what I feel:😊

1. Zoya knows she wants to get engaged to Asad, but not if he is reluctant about it.

2.Zoya does not go in to the depth of her feelings- SHE NEVER DOES- she always thinks of OTHERS- it is not just Asad- even in Mpur, she thought about the safety and well being of a complete stranger, putting her life at risk.

3.It is not that Zoya has no self respect, it is just that she cares more for the world than for herself..Asad is her pet project, and the man she loves...she WILL ALWAYS PUT HIM BEFORE HER own felings.

4. For Asad to deserve Zoya, he has to respect her THE WAY SHE IS...Ayan or Tanveer are not the factors to make him realise that. Neither will it be Zoya teaching him a lesson...he has to earn it in a moment of self- denial...he has to die before he can deserve to love her- hope you get what I mean. The 'self' has to die- his pride, his INSECURITIES...😊

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chicksoup

@chicksoup

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Posted: 12 years ago

#26

Originally posted by: nihamrm
"This is all your fault. You are the one who suggested I marry Tanveer ' so this is all your fault!
man i can totally imagine that
and it would be fun to watch all this happen
You should join the CVs you know, you're an amazing writer

Thanks!😆

I write when I get inspired by the show...so half the credit goes to the makers...😊

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chicksoup

@chicksoup

Sparkler

+ 4

Posted: 12 years ago

#27

Originally posted by: ..vidhi..
amazing post...i would love to see this happening!!!!

Thanks, Vidhi.😊

I am loving what is happening..hopefully they will keep it simple!😊

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Laila Banu

@Laila2009

Rocker

+ 3

Posted: 12 years ago

#28

Originally posted by: chicksoup

Rithuka...👏

You have nailed it! This is exactly what I see too...after this drama!

Ayan might be just that jealousy factor and nothing more...a figment of Asad's imagination.

Laila,
Chill! Wait 4 the drama to unfold.

ZOYA IS A ONE -MAN WOMAN- SHE HAS CHOSEN!

I am chilling just fine. What makes you think otherwise?

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Waqt Zaya

@WaqtZaya

Elite

+ 7

Posted: 12 years ago

#29

thanks for the post i needa calm myself down with my up raging rage in yours! RES for a 5 minx am eating noodles 🤣

unres

All the night and the morning i have been in a bit of angirree mode cause of Asad >.<

I watched Madhubala before QH but that was just cause of my aunt as she loved GEET. anyway. All i was fed up was making Madhu as like a TARGET. I mean first was her Mangater then RK then Sulatan now again RK

What does this mean? Are we girls just a COMMODITY to be shuffled between the crowds?

And the show gets a 4.5 trp wooaaahh!

Anyway, what i personally love about QH is from Gaffur to Rashid to Ayaan to Asad. Each and every male dominant Character fight for the right of the Female.

Let me not say, Gaffur and Rashid they all give Women of the family the most respect, from Razia to Badi Bii. Siddiqi house itself is ruled by Razia. Razia the Empress of everyone.

Ayaan, seems to flirt, but nay, he runs to save Humera, gives her his jacket without a look at her when that A guy tears off her kurta.

Ayaan gives does flirt, teases, but never disrespects any female. He rather gets bashed up rather than calling a girl with names to save his soul (reference first and second Zoya Ayaan meeting scenes)

Asad. Ruled by his mother. Ruled by his Sister. To him his sister his mother's respect is the utmost. He doesn't even care to kill or die for that.

He is ready to die himself, just to save an unknown girl from a forced marriage. (Yu jahan main wahan)

He is ready to kill, just to save the honor of the girl who was just simply innocent (Mangalpur)

He is ready to go to the High Court just to give Zoya justice (Akram case)

He protects the women of his house, no matter if its Tanveer even.

p.s. I wont include the slap incidence PLEASE cause i personally felt justified from Asad's prov. I wont include that

What does other show shows? Female protagonist nothing but just a commodity.

LOVE QH for this.

Game of TRPs like i always say. Never forget the show is first and foremost based on nothing but TRPs.

All these airport scene and etc etc wouldn't have been there if the TRPs didnt fall so low.

Also, there is NO possibility of Ayaan and Zoya track. The PH has given a lot of Hints on it. I rather not explain all over again about it.

No one would watch the show if it is Tanveer Asad or Ayaan Zoya. CVs have already tasted their medicine 🤣

Basic thing is there was no need of Humera if there had to have a Zoyaa Ayaan track.

Also Gul would never bring down the character of her female protagonist. She always gives them the highest 'DEVI' like statue unlike the cliched shows of today. Hence caught between the brothers NOT a possibility!

NOW now now, the current scenario is like Asad would say a YES to a shaadi implementing highly on his moma's words. Which actually will degrade the whole charecter of Asad.

I know he wont say YES AMMI I LOVE ZOYA I AM READY TO GET MARRIED IT HER.

whatever he says, he actually will degrade himself.

Now what i want is Zoya to say a QUBOOL NAHI HAI INFRONT OF EVERYONE!

Comeone Zoya isnt a cheap commodity that she would be used and reused again and again! Wait, she was abused slapped mocked at, made fun of over and over again she has no self respect that she would just say a yes for this shaadi just cause Asad agreed to marry her?

I dont want that! QH has an image that will ruin it.

i might be thinking too much things might be different, but then this concept is what i not like.

p.s. Asad either loses all the respect Ankie had for him tonight by saying just a YES or he maintains it, if he really opens the heart's content up. DO OR DIE ASAD. Remember I Wanted my man to be like you. Ball is in your court.

Edited by MisHumptyDumpty - 12 years ago

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Laila Banu

@Laila2009

Rocker

+ 3

Posted: 12 years ago

#30

Originally posted by: chicksoup
Laila,

Zoya knows Humeira loves Ayan. She will never marry Ayan. NEVER!

Ayan might show some feelings for her, if Humeira sets him free knowing he was forced. I so don't want Ayan- Humeira happening like this.

Asad will go through the torment of knowing his brother has developed feelings for Zoya...while Zoya tries to keep a respectable distance...might even think she has moved on from him...

Once the Mus are cleared, Siddiqui will come in...it will take time. 😉

Interesting scenario that can be digested by the fans IF that is what has been proposed. You're quite confident with that aren't you? But what...just what if that didn't happen and they went further? Remember in Gul's mind she is still thinking of an actor who looks good with Surbhi should the need arise. 😆

Edited by Laila2009 - 12 years ago