Duty over love it is...for now

Originally posted by: -Misha-

I am sorry but I disagree with your post...you mean to say Jeevika does not have any elder sister wali duty towards Maanvi😲

Originally posted by: -Misha-

I am sorry but I disagree with your post...you mean to say Jeevika does not have any elder sister wali duty towards Maanvi😲

Originally posted by: *Reemz*

I don't entirely agree or disagree with Jeevika and Manvi's actions and reactions. They literally are extremes of extremes hence I find it hard to fathom how people can be so for one sister and against the other. Neither of them are flawless... Reemz I was waiting for you post. I knew would post amongst the sound of the keyboard. (sorry bad analogy couldn't think of anything better) But you have put what I have been trying to say perfectly. Both are complete extremes, yet people are so for one sister over another. They both have extreme flaws

If we go back to the scene between Dadaji & Jeevika couple of months back where he had asked her what she would choose between her duty and love... Jeevika very firmly said that duty will always come first for her and she's always stood by that principle of hers. When she lashed out at Manvi for making Beeji angry, THAT was choosing duty over love. Today when she is stuck between her in-laws and Manvi, again she chooses her duty because that's the way it works for her. She constantly lives in that fear of disappointing others, her Beeji, chacha, Dadaji, Swamini and even Viren. Yet those silent treatments, glaring looks and the outbursts are reserved for Maanvi. To put it in the literal sense, Manvi is her love while her other relationships come with an obligation and a sense of duty. Some relations are such where liberties can be taken. When Jeevika called Manvi her soul, she said it because Manvi is a part of her. Jeevika's priorities haven't changed at all actually. She was always like this because Jeevika puts herself after all these people, her thoughts do not matter if they clash with her elders or her in-laws. The sisters are supposed to be one entity but this doesn't mean their thoughts have to be in sync with each other. It means what you do to one, you do to the other. In other words, it may seem Jeevika puts Manvi last but she is also doing the same to herself. You have a way words. :D Could you imagine Jeevika speaking like this to anyone else apart from Maanvi. Like you said she sees her other relations as her duty and she never wants to disappoint any of them. Where as with Maanvi she is able to say what she actually feels, she doesn't have to keep it suppressed. I'm not sure about the priorities as after marriage your priorities do change, and Jeevika's has changed in the sense she now has to consider her husband her in-laws feelings as well as her sisters. But you right in saying that she always put her thought behind when it comes to elders opinions. The sisters do live within each other but their thoughts do not match and there not suppose to, their sisters there not clones of each other.

I won't comment on the precap till it airs tomorrow (it hurt to say the least) but after an extreme low, there will be an extreme high where once again Jeevika will be the one to shock everyone. Tomorrow she is telling Manvi to get out of the house but one day she will drag her back as a permanent resident 😛 Tomorrow will be interesting and we will be here, commenting but lets wait and see.

Originally posted by: TheJake

I agree with your post, but I aslo agree with Misha there. It's true that Jeevika sees Manvi as her entity, but being an older sister, she also has a duty towards Manvi. This is alame excuse. It's like you are taking it up to cover Jeevika's mistake(s).