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Posted: 14 years ago
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Watching RMJ last few weeks episodes I was wondering how much interference from girls parent's is okay. I mean you don't have to call your Mom up everytime something happens at you sassural but like the torture Mona went through she needed somebody to talk to besides her husband. If you can share your happiness than why not your sadness. We will discuss later how much boy's parents should interfere but for today only girls side okay😉

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Posted: 14 years ago
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i feel happiness not shared wid parents is still fine,but sadness or if being tortured by inlaws should be told tpo parents,rather then being filmy thinking parents will become sad.this is wat i feel
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: sherma

i feel happiness not shared wid parents is still fine,but sadness or if being tortured by inlaws should be told tpo parents,rather then being filmy thinking parents will become sad.this is wat i feel



Agree with you, like the way Mona was tortured she needed some help and maybe guidance to see how she can improve her situation. How much do you think girls parent should interfere in her family life😳
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: kajolj



Agree with you, like the way Mona was tortured she needed some help and maybe guidance to see how she can improve her situation. How much do you think girls parent should interfere in her family life😳

u need a proper person to guide you,in mona side,amrit is a right person to take help,were as in hetals life it should be bharti or mona but it was fui and baa.
PARENTS INterfernce is concerned:i think it should be limited,only if its necesaary or it becums ugly.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: sherma

u need a proper person to guide you,in mona side,amrit is a right person to take help,were as in hetals life it should be bharti or mona but it was fui and baa.

PARENTS INterfernce is concerned:i think it should be limited,only if its necesaary or it becums ugly.


Amrit is very easily influenced, she doesn't comes across as strong or secure personality, she should never ever be told anything. Beside she is not Mona's mom. She didn't even stand up for own daughter, her daughter was thrown out by DIL in first few weeks of her arrival and she didn't want to find out what exactly happened. She is not the one to be trusted with anything.

Girls parents regardless of who they are have the right to know that their daughter is suffering, they are one who daughter should trust, regardless of who they are, they raised their daughter they have the right to know if she is suffering, or if things have gone wrong,..Taaya, Tayai cannot take place of parents and neither they should.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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I personally think that we do not need to tell everything to parents...why share pain with them...they like to see us happy...we should share with them our Happiness..
I was very happy to see how Mona handle her pain and hurt...she always maintain her in-laws and husband honor...if wife respects her husband than the world will do it too...Today if Anu has so much respect it all due to Mona...
Hetal is another thing😡 She is a let down on as a wife, daughter-in-law and as a daughter...
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Posted: 14 years ago
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I think I am going to jump in and say my 2 words here. I am against interfering for most part unless there is something very drastic. There is nothing wrong if you share your happiness and sorrows with your parents but no interference.
Mona should have informed her parents of the abuse she was getting everyday at the Gandhi's when Anukalp was doing nothing to stop it.
Mona's character was such that she did not want her sorrows to be heard by her parents. She wants to share only happiness and that is why she called her mom on getting her first car.
I think I said more than 2 words...so I am going to stop here.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: beetaurus

I think I am going to jump in and say my 2 words here. I am against interfering for most part unless there is something very drastic. There is nothing wrong if you share your happiness and sorrows with your parents but no interference.

Mona should have informed her parents of the abuse she was getting everyday at the Gandhi's when Anukalp was doing nothing to stop it.
Mona's character was such that she did not want her sorrows to be heard by her parents. She wants to share only happiness and that is why she called her mom on getting her first car.
I think I said more than 2 words...so I am going to stop here.


I agree..

In real life if you keep everything bottled up and confide in nobody like Mona did, you will end up in mental institute.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: April2007


I agree..

In real life if you keep everything bottled up and confide in nobody like Mona did, you will end up in mental institute.

April, I agree with you.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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I think to call parents to ask recepe is fine but not bitch about each and every1 in your sasural...

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