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SimplyAparajita

@SimplyAparajita

Dazzler

+ 3

Posted: 15 years ago

Please people i know that i should not at all interfere in your dreams about geet...but ya being part of this family on if i thought i had a right to share....there is a girl who is my friend and i cant disclose her name... .well she is preparing for her most important dream come true:(:(:( by wasting one year extra on it...she HAD a promising bf who emotionally fooled her arround....and then took her trust on his side....and used her up and threw her away and left her alone.:-(...well the story doesnot end here as she is 3 month preg. I know her family they are more or less butchers...and if they come to know she will be surely killed...well she told me all this today...one week after legal limit of abortion has passed....friends i am against abortion..but it was demand of situation....now she is up to suicide and what not...and i cant see her like that or afford to lose her...moreover she is just 17...my head is tearing apart...what should i do for her:(:(:(:( please moderators if you find this topic too out of track for forum you can delete it ...:(:(:(:(:(:(am thousand times sorry for taking all of yours precious time

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JayaR

@JayaR

Voyager

Posted: 15 years ago

hey its ok.....
i guess d family needs to knw d truth..... afterall she is their daughter....
more than that she has a life..... she jst cant tk such a drastic step....i knw wht she mst b going through n i also knw my words wont comfort u or either her....
bt if der is sum1 who can help her den its onli her family....
pls let them knw d truth.... dat guy really needs sum bashing... for her spoiling life....

hope my advice helps u a bit.....

Edited by JayaR - 15 years ago

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kirti_fiji

@kirti_fiji

Trailblazer

+ 6

Posted: 15 years ago

completely agree with the above comment

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SimplyAparajita

@SimplyAparajita

Dazzler

+ 3

Posted: 15 years ago

Thanks alot buddy:(:(:(i was so confused...but you are right...there is no better option left:(:(:(my fingers are crossed for her:(:(:( But only thing that scares me is that if i tell her to trust me and tell her parents every thing and if her family turns out to be violent then how will i face her:(:(:( i dont know why people turn so mean:(:(:( how could that guy...atleast he was well matured:(:(

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JayaR

@JayaR

Voyager

Posted: 15 years ago

see what is done is done....nthn can b chnged rite nw..

its her family dat has to tk d decision abt wht dey r gonna do abt her pregnancy....
im sure dey wudnt want to loose their daughter.... of-course they vil b angry at her for wht she did.... bt at the end its onli they who r gonna help her out
so dnt wrry...... explain it to ur frnd n ask her to tel d truth to her parents
i knw its nt gonna b easy.... stay wid her to gv her al d support dat she needs whn she is confronting her parents....

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SimplyAparajita

@SimplyAparajita

Dazzler

+ 3

Posted: 15 years ago

Ya i have encouraged her to open up tomorrow and i will be with her tomorrow....:( :( :( :( :( :( thanks alot dear:(:(:( hope every thing turns ok:(:(

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423728

Hibernated

Posted: 15 years ago

Wow 😕. Your friend seriously needs to tell her parents about this. Regardless of the outcome, you can't run away from your own actions. I understand the family is possibly going to be absolutely heart broken. I actually would like to initially convey my sympathies to them. But yeah, suicide should NOT be an option. It is so wrong to end your life and that for a jerk who deserves to rot in hell! 😡

Regardless of how strict her family may be, at the end of it all - they are all she has (apart from friends). If you can't turn to them in times of crisis, then who can you depend on? They will be angry at her for sure, but at the end - they will have no choice but to support her. After all, she is their daughter.

And just for a general message to others, please please avoid such situations like this. What you do with your personal life is completely up to you, but just think of the consequences before taking any further steps. And if your relationship is on an intimate level, please remember that there are measures to prevent such outcomes from occurring! I'm sure you all know what I'm talking about. 🤔

Better be safe than sorry. 👍🏼

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Harpreet.M

@Harpreet.M

Dazzler

Posted: 15 years ago

i think you should tell her to tell her parents, i know its going to be really tough but things happen under peer pressure or other circumstances. Suicide is not a option. she should talk to her parents and if they don't agree, you could ask her to move in with you if its cool with your family. A few years back, my friend was pregnant before marriage and she ran away from home. That did not turn out very well.

best of luck to your friend and you hope things get well soon!

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ankita

@Ankita_88

Rocker

+ 5

Posted: 15 years ago

be intimate but take a pill at time.......why did she not take pill????/had she gone mad>???but anyway tell family,if they throw ehr still that would be best.....they have gvn birth to us and they have full right to know what disasters we do!