Bigg Boss 19: Daily Discussion Thread- 1st Dec 2025. - Page 117

Originally posted by: NINALOGY

Amaal itna kyun obsessed hai tanya sy, let her give her answers yeh usko standing ovation, slow clap kyun dey raha tha

Amaal ko kitna bola don't be obsessed with Tanya..phir bhi same...

Farhana was hinting him to come back to seat

Lol

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Originally posted by: Kinginthenorth9

He should have but I guess we all underestimated his popularity which is still a mystery to me like what has he done in the show to get so much popular. Really feels to me whoever does over masses dont like them and automatically revert to liking those who r being chill and laid back so the best solution for every contestant is to all of them be laid back and chill and let the masses see how entertaining show is when all r being boring and mahaan but why this will never happen is cuz some contestants r unknown so they have to be ott in order to survive long so they will never afford being silent like bigger names on the show

Aur bacha kaun hai iss season mei..

Pranit seems to be logical and better as a person than GK .so I feel Public automatically shifted to him...He did a mistake in choosing Ashnoor over Abhishek ..but most of time his stands were correct .

GK toh sly hai..and if triggered he react worse..

Amaal also lost audience support due to his initial stinct ..now it's his better version but still he can get nasty whn poked .

Tanya is a pheku no 1..

Farhana ghandi zubaan..

Malti is still having no clarity nor able to express or put across her points .

So automatically Pranit appears better among the lot...

Originally posted by: Agni_Jytsona

See this is what I was talking about. He keeps putting Akansha on spot and portraying himself as some sort of victim

Kids are something you discuss before marriage. If you agree to marry despite your partner s choice to not have kids then you are not a victim . You made a choice

If you and your partner really want such different future than better not to marry at all. Find partner who will agree to your choice of your life

But to get married and then keep ranting about wanting kids when you knew from beginning what you are getting into is so unfair to your partner.

Especially when she very clearly told him not to do this.

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I am not going to argue on wheather he should have said it on Big Boss or not as there is nothing to argue....but since you have brought up this before marriage thing...toh I assume You haven’t followed Gaurav before, so may be you don't know certain things..

But there is a reason GK fans respond with a different level of empathy whenever his personal life, especially the “kids” topic, comes up.

People who have seen his old interviews and pre-wedding segments know the emotional foundation he carried into his marriage.

Gaurav wasn’t someone who casually talked about the future - he was someone who dreamed with his whole heart.

I still remember that moment in one of their pre-wedding clips where he softly asked Akanksha whether she would like to be his wife… and raise their future family together.

Not just marriage .. family. Home. Togetherness.

There was another segment where he said he dearly wants a daughter who grows up exactly like Akanksha - gentle, elegant, grounded.

You could see it in his eyes even then… this was a man who imagined tiny futures, not just big ones. Akanksha blushed, smiled with pink cheeks and you could almost feel how full his heart was in that moment,how happy they were

Back then, Akanksha didn’t hold a DINK stance. She made that decision later and that’s completely and absolutely her right. She has full agency over her body and her life.She is the one who is going to go through all the physical, mental, emotional and hormonal changes,her life is going to change forever...so she has all the rights..

But there is other side to it as well that it was a shift in the dreams of a man who had always wanted fatherhood.

But he tried to do what a good partner does.He listened.He discussed.He respected.He supported.

He adjusted his entire life blueprint to align with the woman he loved...

And yes this is what he chose because in front of higher priority lower priority automatically falls off...and he chose his wife and her happiness as the top priority..So his genuine sensible fans would never ever give hate to Akanksha...but yes his fans are a bit understanding and empathetic towards him Bcz they know the space their marriage came from.. and

protection doesn’t erase void..So when this topic comes up, his older fans understand why it hits differently for him. It’s not drama. It’s not manipulation. It’s a void he has learned to live by his own choice .He tries to make peace with it but peace isn’t the same as absence of longing.

And sometimes, you can see that longing slip through the cracks when certain conversations happen. ...and I hope Akanksha also gets it...

Baas again I am saying "Akanksha is absolutely right" wrt her choice....but no before marriage the situation was not like this...baaki don't want to discuss more on their personal stuffs much as it's a very sensitive thing...

I will try to share the clips with you if I ever find it...

I see on social media Gaurav is popular best player, Farhana is popular TRP of the show, Tanya antic funny contestants.

I will reserve my full opinion on this bache waala topic after watching the episode.

But I am a realist and practical. I will not pander to the so called definition of feminism on this issue for some brownie points

Kids are important. In my personal opinion, everyone should have it and experience it.

The amount of societal pressure on having kids is immense especially after getting married. If gk has stood by his wife , then sorry it's not bare minimum. He has indeed gone beyond.

There would pressure from his family may be her wife family too but he has defended her cos he respects her choice.

That too when he himself wants a child badly. So agar akansha thoda spot pe aati hai to I don't think it's a big issue .She can also defend him and say he is supporting me despite wanting the child so badly. I am sure itnaa heat she can take .

Nobody is perfect in all sense. Phir to robot se shaadi kar lo . Matlab aadmi aapki baat ko samjhe respect kare, duniya mein defend kare. But can never express his wish also. Kyaa hai bhai ye.

And even if it's his strategy to make akansha see through his pain, his eish . I don't see anything wrong here too. You try your best ,hoping one day she willingly changes her mind.

May be they have an unsaid pact , gaurav ne bola hoga mein to try karta rahunga tumko convince karne ko directly yaa indirectly. Baaki tumhari marzi. And she would be ok with that too

I cannot speak for members here but given a choice in the mass audience, I am sure majority women would choose GK ( even those women who don't want kids) in an instant as their life partner.

Sorry for all the rant but mujhe ye bolna tha .

Originally posted by: asmitamohanty

I am not going to argue on wheather he should have said it on Big Boss or not as there is nothing to argue....but since you have brought up this before marriage thing...toh I assume You haven’t followed Gaurav before, so may be you don't know certain things..

But there is a reason GK fans respond with a different level of empathy whenever his personal life, especially the “kids” topic, comes up.

People who have seen his old interviews and pre-wedding segments know the emotional foundation he carried into his marriage.

Gaurav wasn’t someone who casually talked about the future - he was someone who dreamed with his whole heart.

I still remember that moment in one of their pre-wedding clips where he softly asked Akanksha whether she would like to be his wife… and raise their future family together.

Not just marriage .. family. Home. Togetherness.

There was another segment where he said he dearly wants a daughter who grows up exactly like Akanksha - gentle, elegant, grounded.

You could see it in his eyes even then… this was a man who imagined tiny futures, not just big ones. Akanksha blushed, smiled with pink cheeks and you could almost feel how full his heart was in that moment,how happy they were

Back then, Akanksha didn’t hold a DINK stance. She made that decision later and that’s completely and absolutely her right. She has full agency over her body and her life.She is the one who is going to go through all the physical, mental, emotional and hormonal changes,her life is going to change forever...so she has all the rights..

But there is other side to it as well that it was a shift in the dreams of a man who had always wanted fatherhood.

But he tried to do what a good partner does.He listened.He discussed.He respected.He supported.

He adjusted his entire life blueprint to align with the woman he loved...

And yes this is what he chose because in front of higher priority lower priority automatically falls off...and he chose his wife and her happiness as the top priority..So his genuine sensible fans would never ever give hate to Akanksha...but yes his fans are a bit understanding and empathetic towards him Bcz they know the space their marriage came from.. and

protection doesn’t erase void..So when this topic comes up, his older fans understand why it hits differently for him. It’s not drama. It’s not manipulation. It’s a void he has learned to live by his own choice .He tries to make peace with it but peace isn’t the same as absence of longing.

And sometimes, you can see that longing slip through the cracks when certain conversations happen. ...and I hope Akanksha also gets it...

Baas again I am saying "Akanksha is absolutely right" wrt her choice....but no before marriage the situation was not like this...

I will try to share the clips with you if I ever find it...

You cannot see in somebody s eyes from this side of the camera. You just cannot

Nobody knows how am actors is based on few perfectly curated interview and PR image.

A good partner does not keeps it announcing it to world that what a great "favour" they did on their partner

A good partner would have shut the journo up and not gone on "look what a good husband I am rant"

I hope someday. Someday you guys will see this from Akansha s pov and understand how unfair Gaurav is being to her by painting himself as some sort of victim

Originally posted by: intruderfast

I will reserve my full opinion on this bache waala topic after watching the episode.

But I am a realist and practical. I will not pander to the so called definition of feminism on this issue for some brownie points

Kids are important. In my personal opinion, everyone should have it and experience it.

The amount of societal pressure on having kids is immense especially after getting married. If gk has stood by his wife , then sorry it's not bare minimum. He has indeed gone beyond.

There would pressure from his family may be her wife family too but he has defended her cos he respects her choice.

That too when he himself wants a child badly. So agar akansha thoda spot pe aati hai to I don't think it's a big issue .She can also defend him and say he is supporting me despite wanting the child so badly. I am sure itnaa heat she can take .

Nobody is perfect in all sense. Phir to robot se shaadi kar lo . Matlab aadmi aapki baat ko samjhe respect kare, duniya mein defend kare. But can never express his wish also. Kyaa hai bhai ye.

And even if it's his strategy to make akansha see through his pain, his eish . I don't see anything wrong here too. You try your best ,hoping one day she willingly changes her mind.

May be they have an unsaid pact , gaurav ne bola hoga mein to try karta rahunga tumko convince karne ko directly yaa indirectly. Baaki tumhari marzi. And she would be ok with that too

I cannot speak for members here but given a choice in the mass audience, I am sure majority women would choose GK ( even those women who don't want kids) in an instant as their life partner.

Sorry for all the rant but mujhe ye bolna tha .

It's not about "feminism" or the definition about it

It's just about basic respect that you owe to your partner

If you want them you talk to your partner not entire world. Especially when your partner specifically asked him not to ask it to world but ask her instead

Don't you think she is owed atleast that much respect?

Originally posted by: intruderfast

I will reserve my full opinion on this bache waala topic after watching the episode.

But I am a realist and practical. I will not pander to the so called definition of feminism on this issue for some brownie points

Kids are important. In my personal opinion, everyone should have it and experience it.

The amount of societal pressure on having kids is immense especially after getting married. If gk has stood by his wife , then sorry it's not bare minimum. He has indeed gone beyond.

There would pressure from his family may be her wife family too but he has defended her cos he respects her choice.

That too when he himself wants a child badly. So agar akansha thoda spot pe aati hai to I don't think it's a big issue .She can also defend him and say he is supporting me despite wanting the child so badly. I am sure itnaa heat she can take .

Nobody is perfect in all sense. Phir to robot se shaadi kar lo . Matlab aadmi aapki baat ko samjhe respect kare, duniya mein defend kare. But can never express his wish also. Kyaa hai bhai ye.

And even if it's his strategy to make akansha see through his pain, his eish . I don't see anything wrong here too. You try your best ,hoping one day she willingly changes her mind.

May be they have an unsaid pact , gaurav ne bola hoga mein to try karta rahunga tumko convince karne ko directly yaa indirectly. Baaki tumhari marzi. And she would be ok with that too

I cannot speak for members here but given a choice in the mass audience, I am sure majority women would choose GK ( even those women who don't want kids) in an instant as their life partner.

Sorry for all the rant but mujhe ye bolna tha .

Aur is main robot wali kya baat ha?

If you agree that Gk is a human who makes mistakes

So he will be called out for it like every other contestants gets call it

Is main itna defensive kyun ho rahe ho?