Aise hawa mei bolne se divorce nahi ho jata hai

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Yes Sai n virat marriage have grounds for divorce by desertion , but till you file a case for divorce it is still valid

and star plus has neatly removed the 9 years story.. let’s say Sai n virat get divorced even that does not rule out paternity of Savi ..

She is still his legitimate child ..



When virat has not even consummated his marriage with pakhi .. how is even that legal .. even that has ground for annulment.,


People get jailed for 14 years .. so does that mean .. they are divorced .. till a couple goes to court and says I am filing for divorce .. it is still legal



And till death do us part .. virat could have married after 7 years if Sai missing .. but he married her before that on grounds of Sai’s death.. but Sai had never died .. she was alive , gave birth to a kid and was practicing as a doctor



So they are still married ..to legitimise his marriage to pakhi .. he has grounds for divorce .. so he should run and file for a divorce with Sai .. and then get married to Pakhi . But Aise hawa me bolne se divorce nahi hota hai

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Posted: 3 years ago
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This is totally unrelated to your post but just wanted to rant, so pls ignore.


I dont like ITV glorifying abandonment of marriage and separation without divorce with esp FL not informing about pregnancy and childbirth for years. Every show in almost all channels have same plot, why are the writers/channel/PH not ashamed and audience not rejecting it?


I dont know why many Indians think it is acceptable to seperate without divorcing a partner leaving them in limbo. (Didnt want to bring politics, but Modi is hailed for it). Hating leap of Imlie for same reason, Akshara ran away without informing etc. The more I watch such shows, the more it makes me wonder if such shows do influence people in real life on how marriage is and in laws are.

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Originally posted by: msin

Yes Sai n virat marriage have grounds for divorce by desertion , but till you file a case for divorce it is still valid

and star plus has neatly removed the 9 years story.. let’s say Sai n virat get divorced even that does not rule out paternity of Savi ..

She is still his legitimate child ..



When virat has not even consummated his marriage with pakhi .. how is even that legal .. even that has ground for annulment.,


People get jailed for 14 years .. so does that mean .. they are divorced .. till a couple goes to court and says I am filing for divorce .. it is still legal



And till death do us part .. virat could have married after 7 years if Sai missing .. but he married her before that on grounds of Sai’s death.. but Sai had never died .. she was alive , gave birth to a kid and was practicing as a doctor



So they are still married ..to legitimise his marriage to pakhi .. he has grounds for divorce .. so he should run and file for a divorce with Sai .. and then get married to Pakhi . But Aise hawa me bolne se divorce nahi hota hai


Virat is number one corrupt police office, vankar has only showed him do illegal things like harrasing spouse, sheltering criminal, ignoring family / friends crimes, hitting college students, and he even got 2nd wife without divorcing the 1st wife

Just by making the decent police officers clap and salute him , virat will not become mahan after showing him do so much crime.

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Posted: 3 years ago
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You said it .. on that grounds many other abandoned wives ( of famous political leaders ) should also be called divorced ..



Till a couple goes to court .. and gets a decree .. that yes our marriage cannot be revived ..pls dissolve it .. there is no divorce ..


Yes on grounds of suspected death divorce can be given . But did virat go to court and give valid proof after 7 years of Sai missing . And then did he marry pakhi ..




Non consummation of marriage is also ground for divorce .. so even virakhi wedding is not valid .. if a couple have not maintained conjugal relationship for more than a year .. simply cohabiting is not enough .. even those are ground for divorce . So virat can divorce any of them ( Sai or pakhi )

Edited by msin - 3 years ago
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Posted: 3 years ago
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Yes, they have created a situation such that onus is back on Virat again. His decisions are always turning point of the show. Depending on whose pyaar he is ghum (supposedly Sai), he needs to move a step towards them and divorce the other person. He has seen his and his family's life with Sai as wife and with Pakhi as wife. So it will now depend on if he chooses love or family.


I dont think ITV will ever show divorce due to non consummation of marriage or annulment due to wedding being under coercion.


It will be interesting if Sai realizes she needs to be in power to fight against MLA and do good for people and decides to contest in election. All Chavan ugliness will be out in papers if MLA goes after her husband and family.

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Also the legal paternity of Savi will be questioned.. if Sai is given a death certificate before Savi’s birth


By making Vinayak adopted .. there is only one biological child of virat .. so Chavans will want to maintain hold on Savi .. so even for that .. virat has to revive his marriage.. and bring it to court .. so that he can file for custody of his biological child ..

In India you can file for if you have not been cohabiting conjugally as husband wife for more than a year ..


Now interesting is when virat meets Sai . If by any hook or crook he revives intimacy with her .. Sai will have no grounds to ask for a divorce .,


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Posted: 3 years ago
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But how can Virat prove that he became intimate or not with Sai? Or rather Sai prove unless it leads to pregnancy or accepting the same.

Would makers have thought so much?

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Why does he have to revive the marriage to get custody of Savi?

Is it not possible to file for custody saying Sai faked her death and deliberately stayed away? Chavans/ He can always say she ran away with their first child and he died in accident and he was unaware of Savi' existence and fears for her safety, esp since she lets killers like Jagtap around the child or in her zealous to do social service even led her child being kidnapped and put in danger from which he had to save her. Chavans can even claim that Sai doesn't let child go to school to avoid being detected by system.

Knowing that Sai stayed away knowingly, Virat can be cruel to her.

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Sai has been shown having a reason for her deserting V. Its because she was treated extremely harshly by V. He essentially broke their relationship before the accident anyway if accident had not happened they would have probably fought bitterly some more and ended up being judicially separated/divorced.

Her not bothering to return even to officially divorce and separate from V post accident is justified by makers due to her extraordinary circumstances. Its exaggerated and too extreme, yes. But Atleast its something I can understand as audience- definitely more than Vs behavior and decision of making pp his wife which is most illogical. Atleast if he had opted to move on with a random person it'd been more reasonable. Sai didn't have the bandwidth for dealing with things by returning to a toxic and abusive atmosphere. She was mourning Vinu, she was emotionally vulnerable due to Vs betrayal of choosing pp to protect and let her go that too so harshly, due to her own surprise miracle pregnancy which was super complicated and the pressures of rebuilding her entire life from get go. She didn't have the time or finances to afford getting a lawyer and going to court. So she just essentially let it go because she had way too much on her plate to go back and deal with the paperwork and legalities of divorce and the attack of all the Chavans who would have decimated her if she had returned and thats the last thing she'd want to deal with when she had a miracle pregnancy and a fetus to take care of. If she'd gone back she risked another stress related miscarriage or losing Savi to pp because they blamed Sai for Vinu death. In the past she has been shown doing the due diligence in terms of paperwork. But this time she was way too emotional and broken to invest any more time into that chapter of her life. And i think its possible she will suggest divorce now after she is face to face with that painful past especially when she realizes V is married to pp so that there is no confusion about the marital statuses of all involved. Sadly the children will suffer because Vinu and Savi will be really confused and conflicted if they realize that both of them have V as father but their mothers are different....that will be hard to explain. If V had been a single parent to Vinu this situation would have been a tad bit easier. We dont even know if Vinu knows he is adopted.

more problem will arise when Vinu is revealed to be Sai's Vinu - her biological child. Dont think Sai will let her baby be with pp when she learns that she has biological stake plus Vinu and her clearly have an emotional bond right from day 1. But i think Sai is likely to leave it up to Vinu to decide who he wants to be with- her or pp. If Vinu chooses pp she will be broken but accept it.

If V chooses to go to court to get Savi custody then it'll require that he legally end his marriage with Sai and for every allegation he levels on Sai, she can also explain her rationale. She also has allegations against him and CN. She abandoned him and hid herself and Savi because she felt unsafe in CN. They wanted her ro live with a criminal who got her assaulted and snatched her child by being an illegal surrogate and her IPS husband enables it all. Theres proof that she submitted an official complaint to deal with all this before the accident. And after the accident she was not in the frame of mind to return and exhaust herself fighting a legal battle.

Sai can also challenge on what grounds Virat assumed her to be dead and marry again if he never saw her body or did her final rites. He was obliged to file a missing report, wait for 7 years before remarrying. Hes an ips too. So he doesn't have the excuse of not knowing the law and the procedures to be followed! No doctor/hospital could have issued a death certificate for Sai without them confirming, announcing her death themselves! As a doctor i know i wont sign a death certificate if someone claims a person is dead and requests it! It wouldn't be legal!

And Sai has given Savi a good upbringing. That child is happy, healthy and thriving. So theres no grounds for a court to give Savi custody to Virat when Sai is an independent single parent who has been providing for her child. Sai is also well respected in the village. Everyone adores her and Savi and can vouch for her too. If the matter goes to court, logically Sai will only retain Savi custody.

They have glorified abuse, illegal surrogacy, naxalite shielding, etc etc. People have committed much bigger crimes and its been brushed away. So whats another in that list! Sai has also responded this time by not being "proper" in terms of legalities but simply placing her self preservation, her peace of mind and the safety of her child above everything.

Edited by Nja91 - 3 years ago
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Posted: 3 years ago
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Yes these are messy tracks which can be taken up a fight for Savi custody.

But virat by cohabiting and marrying pakhi has also weakened situation..pakhi was a proven offender in the surrogacy fiasco .. and she was jailed .,


so the very thing that virat was in a relationship with a person who had endangered Sai and her kids life .. made Sai worry about her unborn child .. knowing he married pakhi she stayed away to protect her child .

Even in these cases .. a mother seldom loses custody of her minor child .. max virat will get is visiting rights to the child .

Virat has committed adultery by marrying pakhi when Savi was born ..

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