Anuj, Vanraj..who?? Anupamaa is the real HERO of the show🙌 - Page 8

Originally posted by: tanu90

First of all hugs to you dear sunshine from a fellow depression survivor! 🤗🤗🤗

I second you regarding the producers treatment of Anuj. Firstly I don't know how old is Mukku. The siblings did not meet each other for 10 years which means Mukku was married off rather early. Anuj does not seem to be the kind of guy who would marry off his sister early or just because she chose the wrong guy as her boyfriend (Akshay). May be I'm being too judgemental at this point of time. But I don't know..I don't like them guilt tripping Anuj. Waise hi bande ki life me kam trauma hai kya jo ek aur cheez ka guilt bhi de diya uske sir pe. Like Reetika mentioned parents ko arranged marriage set up me jab pata chalta hai ki the guy was abusive they tend to blame themselves for choosing the wrong guy. Yahaan par parents nahi hain toh Anuj ka guilt aur zyada badh gaya hai. To show anupama healing Anuj they could have tapped into his panic attacks too. The scenes between him and GK. She could have healed him from his survivor guilt. Ek aur cheez ka blame kyun dal diya uske sir pe! I am thankful yeh pura incident shah family ke saamne nahi hua. And I'm hoping against hope ki Vanraj iska fayda uthakar Mukku ko Anuj ke against manipulate na kar de.

Hats off to Aneri, GK and Rupali! Tomorrow's episode will be very very tough to watch.

Haan yaar...kuch jyada hi over dramatic ho gaya...one should not bite what they can't chew or swallow..

This to me seems like another attempt to make Anuj weak and glorify there so called hero..but at what cost, choosing so sensitive subject is like exploitation when your intentions are not pure.. let's see..

Depression is something most of us tackle with in our life, either directly or see for close ones. I believe we all connect here again 🤗..so I am very protective here and would like to see this being handled sensitively.

Originally posted by: tintin0602

My question here is to makers again that again you let a person recite K ki galtiya but when we will listen V ki galtiya in the show? Or is he really doodh ka dhula??? Which he is not? Please ask any damm female.

Well flower finally Anuj ne de hi Diya. Why I am saying this because earlier he usually says that kuch phoolo ki kismat me band kitabe hi hoti hai. But see, flower has decided and today it needs the destination and Anu too accepted it and kept it carefully in her bag which was noticed by Anuj.

Aww cutie pie Mukku caught them just in the middle of the action.

Hey Juhi.

I won't repeat my thoughts on precap here, as I have already shared it..

Makers have told V is the Hero for them, so he is doodh ka dhula. Earlier it was Anu and today they used even Samar, so I am not keeping any expectations.

🌹 My heart went for this scene. Glad it wasn't a dream and Anuj finally getting the happiness he so truly deserves. I say more for Anuj than Anu because of his year's long wait.. blissful moment in today's episode 😍

I disagree completely that anupama is hero

She is hero if whatever she did she would do without anuj help only

She should go get a job herself work hard promotion take boss trouble change jobs 14 hour kaam kare decades phir business partner bane ya manager than its her credit

Shes got everything on platter because of anuj kapadia

She do not even deserve 80% of what shes got because shes not fit for manager or business post forget business woman

She do not have even ability to differentiate bet good and bad people forget reading finnacial reports or doing presentation etc

Vanraj jaise log iske business ko 5 din me dubba denge

anuj kapadia uske peeche hai toh kisi ki himmat nahi hai awarna abh tak crores loss aur phir ghar betna padtha

I would say my first real hero is anuj kapadia in show

Other women do not get everything on platter like anupama

Never forget anupam awas staying in ex hubby house no house no job no money no education

Woh to anuj kapadia aaye bhagwan ki tarah usko sahara diya kaam diya uncha bitaya

all because he loves her only

Otherwise why no patrtnership to devika

woh bhi toh dost hai usko koi impotanace nahi hai

Anuj did to anupama what Sri krishna did to sudhama

That too without really deserving that post or partnership

Originally posted by: Km181

You spoke my mind dear, word by word.

Precisely the reason, I am mentally moving away from this serial now. I am very disappointed today.

So far tracks for whitewash were Trash..but this is hitting on weak spot, way too below the belt attempt.

Yaar me too. I've been disappointed with their track executions in the past. This is anyways a very sensitive topic. Hope they do handle it properly otherwise aisa point aa jayega where I'll only watch it for MaAn.

Originally posted by: Km181

Haan yaar...kuch jyada hi over dramatic ho gaya...one should not bite what they can't chew or swallow. Exactly my point! You already have enough on your plate. Loan, women empowerment, abuse, survivor guilt. Pehle inko sahi se handle kar lete. Uske bad dusra track late.

This to me seems like another attempt to make Anuj weak and glorify there so called hero..but at what cost, choosing so sensitive subject is like exploitation when your intentions are not pure.. let's see.. I am keeping my fingers crossed. Hope they do complete justice with the marital rape topic. It's super super sensitive.

Depression is something most of us tackle with in our life, either directly or see for close ones. I believe we all connect here again 🤗 Very true. Depression is painful and difficult even if it is indirect by seeing loved ones dealing with depression. I am glad to connect here with wonderful people like you. 🤗..so I am very protective here and would like to see this being handled sensitively.

My replies in bold

Well, i also agree with all of you that verbal abuse should be a matter of concern. But for Anu it is not because she thinks it was she who had allowed all that to happen to her. If we recall one of the episodes after anu got to know about EMA, she told trashraj that aaj tak sab kuch aapko karne diya kyuki dil me pyaar tha, for her it was her dharm to love her husband, it was her duty to listen to him and he was right in doing whatever he did with her, but it was just EMA that was not right thats why she focusses on that. Someone maybe Devika needs to tell her that all of those things and verbal abuse also comes under torture.

I think once she marries Anuj, she'll realise that how husbands actually are, and she will realise mistakes of that idiot, when Anuj will give her sense of equality even after being her husband. I guess there would be scenes where she'll be like Anuj aap kyu ye kaam kar rahe hai and as Anuj said mai tumhe kabhi kitchen me akele kaam nahi karne doonga.

She'll also realise that Anuj is actually her first love in true sense as i think she only loved vanraj and could have done anything for him because she was taught to love her husband and consider him God.

Originally posted by: RainFire125

Sunny, meri jaan, today your title is the MOST APT TITLE!!! So extra hugs for that your way🤗🤗🤗🤗 and any dessert that you want to eat!!!!!!!!!!!!

What a brilliant screenplay, dialogs and performance!!!! Ranjan Shahi has hit a jackpot again by bringing GK, Rups, and Aneri together!! They compliment each other so so well!! And I totally loved Samar and his dialogs today, he is the most closest clone of Anu. See the difference in upbringing - one influenced by his mother and the other two mostly influenced by their father. We will start seeing Pakhi's tantrum soon and one day Anu is going to put her foot down in front of her daughter!! Now i more clearly understand the aspect or the implication of "soul sisters"!!

The story is getting crispier and tighter and this is what the writers need to continue episode per episode!! Its said that if u continue doing something better and better each day, one day it becomes a habit, that too a seamless one, and you attain your definition or benchmark of perfection. Be it practicing to be happy under any circumstances or seeing the brighter side!! You learn to turn life the way you want, irrespective of how life turns your situations or circumstances.

My three starts - Anu, ANuj, and Mukku have made a life for themselves in one way. One has learnt to face situations, rise again and again from ashes, and be happy; see the brighter side!! She is my HERO as Sunny said. It takes immense courage to rise from a gutter like feeling and say that "I am worth IT, no one can take my life away from me. No matter what I will LIVE with a SMILE". This is ANu. She has Kanhaji and she then she has Anuj. But this girl has solely stood and has taken that first step to be happy!!❤️❤️People like her are very much needed in life as they can first become an anchor to people like Mukku and then push or encourage them to start LIVING LIFE and make them realize that they are totally WORTHY!! This woman is now going to be fiercely protective of Mukku and let Vanraj Shah try even to move an inch!! I am hoping that writers are writing a screenplay where I want Anu to slap Vanraaj Shah with a force that he will fall back!! I know this is wishfull thinking, but sochne mein kya jata hai!!!!!!!!!!!

One is so burdened with happenstances (that was in his control and also NOT in his control), that he has forgotten to live for himself. He lives as if life is a opportunity to give his everything to his loved ones and not expect anything at all!! This is what happens to people who are burdened with guilt, who think that they have made the wrong choices. They forget that they actually dont have control. Being in control in infact a myth. The only control we have is on our own actions, on our own behavior, on how we perceive life and how we try and help others!! Helplessness, blame, cursing oneself will lead to only self depreciation which I also feel is a kind of disease. Hence ANuj also needs treatment to come out of this and start thinking afresh. Start helping his Mukku to look towards life with a fresh eye!! He first needs to stand himself UP emotionally. He hides behind his work, or he has hid so far!! But once Anu has stepped into his life, his emotional side is open and now we see his weakness and his other aspects as a human as well. He will heal, he will forgive himself, he will live again as he has a force by his side!!

One is so brutalized that if she takes one step forward, her emotions make her take 10 steps backward!! I so empathize with her. Behind her every smile, behind her sasiness, there is a fear. She wants to be so badly loved, accepted, told that she is worthy to be part of family. I seriously felt her today when i saw her expressions while trying to take that first step to step out of FEAR!! This itself is a commendable habit and she got this from her Anu. We will see her come out, we will see her heal too and LIVE. We will also see her forgive her brother in the real sense. All the unsaid emotions hopefully will come forward and both the siblings will have a closure. Aneri was fantabulous!!!! And she will be a total badass to Vanraaj SHAH!!!

I loved the fact that all her truth will be out only in front of ANu and ANuj!! Am so so glad that this will not be out in front of Shahs. Something might get triggered later and some aspects might come due to which ANu will get in the protective mode and she will be questioned. But this emotional coaster cannot be shown to V!! Thank you makers for keeping this between my three stars!! Anu is their beacon and all three will rise again!!!!!! Kanhaji's blessing is with them afterall❤️

I hope that the writing gets more tighter and crispier continuously as writers have stepped into a very very sensitive zone and a proper healing has to be shown!! Dont show the healing in just a week... pls take the needed time and build other plots to support this healing!

I am not touching on the sweet scenes as i know all will discuss abt it!! And Anuj never ever fails to show his appreciation to his Anu. Just that from now on he will notice more about her and her feelings.

👏👏👏 to the entire Anupaama team

You spoke me today, nothing to add in it🤗

Originally posted by: Km181

Serial has now taken a too sensitive turn for me..one I am not comfortable to enjoy or comment much.. so will l limit my activity for next days. I enjoy OS, FF, SS so will continue to follow here

Few things somehow I am not convinced are:

- Muku physical abuse track seems to have come too soon. She was introduced just few days back, how did she survived alone 10 years like this.. it's even scary to think. She needed Anuj the most and he was away.

- Anuj character is being tainted, while he is not directly responsible for Mukku condition, details we are yet to see. I am not liking how he left her alone for 10 years, how he didn't pick her phone the first time...does he really love her to extent of daughter or she is just a responsibility, it's all messed up.

- Anu's so far only issue is EMA, why are they ignoring her verbal and mental abuse.. both maa, Laadla and kids have done worse with her.. but to retain someone as hero, they don't talk about it. And time again she whitewash him and point fingers at Kavya only, which is not right.

All in all this seems to me another track to weaken Anuj as character and continue meaty role to Vanraj. Which to certain extent would have been tolerable, if they had not used this sensitive topic of muku. Something i have doubts they will handle sensibility and there real intentions behind adding this track..

hey Komal, i understand you above points, but I dont agree with BOLD. This is not weakning his character, this is just merely pointing out what he has done and how it has turned out to be wrong!! We all have faced this in life one way or the other and we have blamed ourselves too. The point is how to let go of this blame, be a solid support for your loved ones and move ahead. This is what will be shown for Anuj as well. SOmewhere he is also standing still and has to move.

Originally posted by: docritu99

After today's episode, words eluded me! And I'm sure this gonna continue for more upcoming episodes.

I especially loved the balanced exchange Anu-Anuj-Mukku trio has! Exchange of love, care, concern, support, strength, motivation, encouragement and all things included.

They all need each other for their self-healing. For once, it isn't just give-give from Anupama and Anuj, or take-take for Mukku. There would be worst moments for them one at a time and the other two would be their to hold each other. They all three are victims and well as the warriors!! (Ofcourse in their respective moments)

As I already said, Anu shines like a Phoenix today! Her pain would burn her down, time and again, but she wouldn't fail to rise from her ashes! And take along others with her! She is the true HERO!!

She opened that one page of the most painful moment of her life's diary in front of two most important people of her life, shed tears, and waht she aimed with it, the initiation of healing process of Mukku. Along the process, paving way for her own healing that left incomplete somehow.

It was such a wholesome scene!!

Yesterday itself, I voiced my concern regarding the impact of Anu's changed priorities on her children (excepting Samar here) and today the foreshadowing happened. As I said, we had no worded assurance from any of the three of their take on Anu's changed notions for Anuj. As far as we knew, they are ok with Anuj as her friend. But what now?

We can see parallel Shah drama going to push and pull and sandwich Anu between Kapadias and her children. But the main question is will it affect Anu to the point to take a step back from Anuj? I hope not!!!!!!!

I had chills ran down my spine when I saw Mukku's eyes at the end of the episode. It was freaking scary!! Take a bow, Aneri! Such brilliant acting!!

So they are not just touching domestic violence but getting in the major part, Consent!!!!

I hope the makers deal the the challenge of this issue with utmost sensitivity and gentleness or else it has high chances of backfiring but given the past experiences I know they are going to Ace it!!

Bring it on!! I would be restocking the supply of tissue boxes!!

What's the use of such stellar star-cast if we can't see more of their brilliant shades!

200%, I was just telling sunny that a brilliant story and screenplay gives that space to Actors to outshine and portray ART!!! Rups, GK, and Aneri have that opportunity now!!!

I still remember Anupam Kher in Saransh and he was totally brilliant!!

Originally posted by: moonwearer

Very beautifully put. Happiness is a choice. Anupama aces in that. She is able to see the silver lining in every moment. Vanya on the other hand chose to see what isn't.

Vanya for me choose those things that will never stand forever!! Its a recipe for downfall Vidz. For them simple things is life never matter!!