Originally posted by: MusicMuse
This !
Completely agree with what you said. It always baffles me how this forum always treats Sai , a character as flawed as possible, as if she's some flawless paragon of virtue, which she most definitely is not. Whatever she does wrong, there are literally thousand babying excuses , bachhi hai, teenager hai, immature hai , orphan hai family nehi hai, palace nehi hai.. yada yada.. so she can have a snooty attitude, accepted. She can interfere in other people's personal matters. Accepted. She can be brazen and rude at the drop of a hat. Accepted. She can have an opinion about everything in the family, though when it comes to responsiblity and family rules , then she's an outsider who need not conform to it.
Whereas Virat and Pakhi are never given such leeway, especially Virat. All the readymade pampering and excuses are for Sai only, nothing to be spared for Virat , he is not even a human being but a monster.
If she interferes in his work affairs and make him a butt of joke in front of his superior officer, oh it's perfectly alright after all she's a noble heart and noble intention. And if Virat locks her in their bedroom for 10 minutes, suddenly it's a serious case of domestic violence. People whonsay these things and casually throw around words like domestic violence do they even know it's meaning ?? What it looks like , domestic violence??
To say nothing of her other antics.
All characters of Ghum are flawed , they're humane , that's partly why this show is so popular. It's refreshing to see a "vamp" so pitifully human , a female lead so brashly flawed , a male lead who's often vulnerable and gloriously flawed.
Provided we have the generosity to look at characters with unbiased view.
But.. sigh !
Such utter hypocrisy of treatment towards different characters make me sick to my stomach.
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