Posted: 2 years ago

Originally posted by Fruitcustard_9



Logic sirf sai ko defend karne wali posts mein hota hai .


Jo log sai ke khilaf bolne ke koshish karte hai vo illogical hote hai👏👏

Fruity , anything against Sai will be illogical only . I have realized it by now . I wonder what was illogical. Sai accusing Virat of EMA before or her back to normal after the fight got over . Which wife will be ok if she knew her husband has EMA then it clearly means she did that out of anger to hurt him . Since Virat has a past is it ok for Sai to raise fingers at him everytime. Is having a past a free pass for everyone to question his character. When there are no answers to this then it’s illogical only 

Edited by 404_NotFound - 2 years ago
Posted: 2 years ago

Will wait for the track but Sai accusing Virat had nothing to do with trust issues. She just did because she knew Virat was in a vaada with Pakhi. She still thinks both are in love with each other and emotionally still inseparable, kind of emotionally in EMA. Still every time she sees them together, she gets so affected. And in anger she uses harsh words, accuses him of having more than just friendship and calls him even a khilona. 


Virat has a trust issues because situations make him think differently than what Sai tells him. 


Both are wrong. One who believes from the beginning that she is just the third wheel and the other one who can't trust her. 

Posted: 2 years ago

actually,in virat and  pakki, Ajinkya and Sai case is entirely different.

1) virat told sai that he is committed towards someone whereas sai didn't tell him like that

2) Pakki still desperate for Virat where Ajinkya is jus a friend and does cross his limit 

3) Pakki always troubles sai but Ajinkya. doesn't do anything like that to virat 

4) Virat still didn't propose Sai and didn't clarify his relationship with pakki yet...


He must be gotten idea that how hurting it would be for Sai when pakki idiot always barge into their bedroom 😠

Posted: 2 years ago

Originally posted by 404_NotFound



 What’s the difference between Virat and Sai’s trust issue . The difference is when Virat realizes his mistake he will apologize whereas Sai thinks raising fingers on his character is ok as he didn’t attempt suicide . Virat was a misunderstanding and Sai’s was to hurt him in an argument . 


How can you even compare the two situations? Virat and Pakhi actually HAD a real past and Sai has witnessed firsthand the feelings these two used share in the beginning. Obviously Virat will not try to commit suicide whenever Sai questions him about his past cuz he knows damn well she's speaking the truth! It's another that he and that shameless woman doesn't have the guts to accept it in front of his family hence Sai ends up looking the fool. 

Sai on the other hand will be immensely hurt when Virat baselessly accuses her of whatever with Ajinkya cuz she knows in her heart it's not true! You can clearly see how pissed he is in the precap and he will definitely say hurtful things to Sai.  Will you defend Virat again tomorrow saying Sai brought it upon herself? Till recently Virat used to call Pakhi his best friend, that's why he didn't find anything wrong with her antics. Knowing damn well it's not really friendship he shared with Pakhi but something much deeper. It's weird he can call Pakhi his bff but Sai cannot have an actual best friend who's a guy. Virat always brings up 'Bajinkya' in conversation when it's not even about him, Sai has asked him numerous times what's his obsession with Ajinkya cuz it's stupid. 

As far as I remember during the neighborhood drama, Sai accused Pakhi of always keeping a watch on Virat not the other way around. How is that accusing Virat of ema? Anyone with eyes in that house can see how Pakhi shamelessly claims her rights on Virat like she's the wife and brings down Sai at every given opportunity. But is Sai is not allowed to question this weird practice during her outburst?

Posted: 2 years ago
Originally posted by MuguetDScorpion


Will wait for the track but Sai accusing Virat had nothing to do with trust issues. She just did because she knew Virat was in a vaada with Pakhi. She still thinks both are in love with each other and emotionally still inseparable, kind of emotionally in EMA. Still every time she sees them together, she gets so affected. And in anger she uses harsh words, accuses him of having more than just friendship and calls him even a khilona. 


Virat has a trust issues because situations make him think differently than what Sai tells him. 


Both are wrong. One who believes from the beginning that she is just the third wheel and the other one who can't trust her. 

You have described it well .Yes both are wrong . 


 If Sai believed Virat and Pakhi are having emotional EMA would she allow him to get close to her or stop Pakhi from taking care of him when he was in the hospital. If they were in EMA , it would have made  sense for Pakhi to be with Virat as it would make him feel good  and he would have chosen Pakhi over Sai. I only see her talking about EMA during fights . She is back to normal even when she hasn’t heard any explanation from Virat to indicate there was no EMA . 


Having residual feelings is not really an emotional EMA . If they were still close to each other emotionally or had the longing to be together then it’s an EMA . What Pakhi wants is emotional EMA but can’t be said the same about Virat and I believe Sai knows it as well . 

Posted: 2 years ago
Originally posted by 404_NotFound


Fruity , anything against Sai will be illogical only . I have realized it by now . I wonder what was illogical. Sai accusing Virat of EMA before or her back to normal after the fight got over . Which wife will be ok if she knew her husband has EMA then it clearly means she did that out of anger to hurt him . Since Virat has a past is it ok for Sai to raise fingers at him everytime. Is having a past a free pass for everyone to question his character. When there are no answers to this then it’s illogical only 


It's not wrong that Virat has a past it's wrong that he purposely tries to hide this fact from his family. If only he had expressed this in front of everyone, Pakhi wouldn't dare to be so shameless in front of his wife. 
Would Pakhi have shamelessly tried to pack Virat's clothes in her bag or made such drama when Sai was to be accompanying them on the trip if the family knew then these two had a past?! 
First time Sai questioned him in their bedroom, he completely ignored her questions didn't have the guts to accept it was Pakhi who he said will remain in his heart forever. What's stopping him from accepting all this to Sai and then telling her he will only have feelings for Sai from now on?!


Sai is not accusing of him having an extra marital affair right under their noses, she's asking him to accept his past whatever relationship with Pakhi so they both can understand each other. She still thinks Pakhi is his priority cuz of whatever he told her about himself and Pakhi in the past.

Posted: 2 years ago
Originally posted by shirasaini


actually,in virat and  pakki, Ajinkya and Sai case is entirely different.


True and I have mentioned in my post as well 

1) virat told sai that he is committed towards someone whereas sai didn't tell him like that

True but she was ok with the deal . He never indulged in EMA after his marriage to Sai . Having resuidal feelings is not EMA but if he acted on them then it would be 

2) Pakki still desperate for Virat where Ajinkya is jus a friend and does cross his limit 

 Virat doesn’t cross his limits so he shouldn’t be accused of it . She could blame Pakhi but why pull Virat as well . Sai believes Pakhi is his present and Virat believes Ajinkya can be Sai’s future . 

3) Pakki always troubles sai but Ajinkya. doesn't do anything like that to virat 


True but Pakhi troubling Sai is not equivalent Virat Pakhi are having EMA 

4) Virat still didn't propose Sai and didn't clarify his relationship with pakki yet...


He has his reasons for not proposing Sai and if Sai is unsure about his relationship with Pakhi then doesn’t she move out instead of staying with him . Why doesn’t she think they ate having EMA when things are normal but only feels when they have a fight . 

 


He must be gotten idea that how hurting it would be for Sai when pakki idiot always barge into their bedroom 😠


You are right despite residual feelings Virat never allowed Pakhi to be close to him 

Posted: 2 years ago

I agree with muguet here. I was about to type the same. They both are at different levels of commitment towards each other. Virat is committed fully to sai at this point. Seeing her with anyone hurts. And when he ‘thinks’ she might have feelings for him(hope) and insecurities (jealousy) fighting against each other, any simple trigger ‘can’ cause him to snap out. Does he really think sai will cheat him?no. He knows that sai is brave enough to come to him and say that she loves someone else. He also knows she doesn’t lie. But people don’t think so much when they are taken over by anger, do they?


I am sure sai would blow up if she sees virat and pakhi in the same position. She confronted virat and pakhi that day to come out clean so she can move away from them. Her intentions were good. I don’t think she suspected virat of ema. Her problem with him is that he is compromising with her in the marriage, keeping his love for pakhi alive in his heart. Otherwise she trusts him as an upright person.

Is virat wrong in calling her names. Absolutely! But it happens unintentionally in his outburst. It is not his lack of love or trust for her that causes this outburst but his own miscalculations. Mistakes happen. This is also a big mistake. In my opinion, him ousting sai is a  bigger mistake than this. There he had time to think and make a conscious decision. Here atleast he has no time to think and succumbed to his primal instincts of losing a loved one. 


Just my thoughts! 

Posted: 2 years ago

Originally posted by Clois_semperanc



How can you even compare the two situations? Virat and Pakhi actually HAD a real past and Sai has witnessed firsthand the feelings these two used share in the beginning. Obviously Virat will not try to commit suicide whenever Sai questions him about his past cuz he knows damn well she's speaking the truth! It's another that he and that shameless woman doesn't have the guts to accept it in front of his family hence Sai ends up looking the fool. 


Having a past before marriage and indulging in EMA after his marriage are not the same . She knows the truth because he was the one who told her and if he had intentions of EMA he would have gone to Ladakh with Pakhi alone . Anyway that’s not the discussion here . 

Sai on the other hand will be immensely hurt when Virat baselessly accuses her of whatever with Ajinkya cuz she knows in her heart it's not true! You can clearly see how pissed he is in the precap and he will definitely say hurtful things to Sai.  Will you defend Virat again tomorrow saying Sai brought it upon herself? Till recently Virat used to call Pakhi his best friend, that's why he didn't find anything wrong with her antics. Knowing damn well it's not really friendship he shared with Pakhi but something much deeper. It's weird he can call Pakhi his bff but Sai cannot have an actual best friend who's a guy. Virat always brings up 'Bajinkya' in conversation when it's not even about him, Sai has asked him numerous times what's his obsession with Ajinkya cuz it's stupid. 


If we look at the past incidents, it’s not just Virat even Sai brings up Ajinkaya’s topic to tease him and compare their ages  . Was there a need to say he is not a good dancer as Ajinkya after his muqubula dance ? After the college feast , it was Sai who brought him Ajinkaya’s topic and started comparing their ages and saying Ajinkya lost the dance face off purposely else Virat had no chance . When she keeps comparing him with Ajinkya , it’s natural for him to feel conscious . I don’t defend Virat’s accusation by saying Sai behavior is the reason like how Sai’s accusations are defended saying Virat had a past 

As far as I remember during the neighborhood drama, Sai accused Pakhi of always keeping a watch on Virat not the other way around. How is that accusing Virat of ema? Anyone with eyes in that house can see how Pakhi shamelessly claims her rights on Virat like she's the wife and brings down Sai at every given opportunity. But is Sai is not allowed to question this weird practice during her outburst?


Please watch the episode again . She did indicate towards EMA when Pakhi held Virat’s hand 

Posted: 2 years ago

Originally posted by Clois_semperanc



It's not wrong that Virat has a past it's wrong that he purposely tries to hide this fact from his family. If only he had expressed this in front of everyone, Pakhi wouldn't dare to be so shameless in front of his wife. 
Would Pakhi have shamelessly tried to pack Virat's clothes in her bag or made such drama when Sai was to be accompanying them on the trip if the family knew then these two had a past?! 
First time Sai questioned him in their bedroom, he completely ignored her questions didn't have the guts to accept it was Pakhi who he said will remain in his heart forever. What's stopping him from accepting all this to Sai and then telling her he will only have feelings for Sai from now on?!


Sai is not accusing of him having an extra marital affair right under their noses, she's asking him to accept his past whatever relationship with Pakhi so they both can understand each other. She still thinks Pakhi is his priority cuz of whatever he told her about himself and Pakhi in the past.

Virat has the right to decide if he wants to talk about his past with his family . We know why he doesn’t . She is SIL and his missing brothers wife . By accepting he will make it awkward for everyone. 


Why is he not admitting to his deal wife Sai is a different discussion but that doesn’t mean he is into EMA . Why does Sai want him to admit . He had shared about his past with some trust but now she is using that in the fight to hurt him . He can choose not to share as its past and he has shared with the women he married . He is not obligated to share it with anyone 



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