Originally posted by: neo7
There is nothing wrong in cooking theplas until and unless she is doing it willingly. If kinjal is doing at her will, I don't have a problem. It should be her choice what she wants to prioritise, her career or home and in both the case it is not wrong what she wants. Why is taking care of home looked down upon if the woman is educated. It has to be her choice, if she wants to make career than give importance to career over home and if she wants to give importance of household work, than also its not wrong, important is it has to be her choice. And they have a maid at home. Also kinjal is capable enough that she can keep a full time maid if she wants, she had earlier also done that.
I agree that this is a personal choice but agar aap reserved ya conservative family main aa rahe ho then voh indirectly aap pe apply ho jate hai and you get used to it… jaise Anupama khud chup rehte the vaise kinjal ko bhi kai baar sahi stand lene pe chup kara dete the… toh aise family main aakar apko adjustment ke chakkar main sacrifice karna padta aur fir voh cheeze apke decisions ban jate hai and apko influence karne lagte hai and then aap khush toh ho jate ho but voh dil se khushi nahi hote….
Aur kinjal pehle toh yeh sab nahi karte the ab usko karna padh raha hai because baa and all karte nahi hai age and baki factors ke karan… toh uska apna decision bolo ya indirectly uspe aaya hua I won’t say ki yeh uske apne marzi se hoga… from starting she is career oriented… and usko maid rakhne main bhi koi problem nahi hai but yeh Baa and all rakhne kahan dete hai pehle bhi yeh baat uthe the aur Baa and Pakhi jaise log hi fir bolte hai maid ka khana aacha nahi hota and all…
And kabhi bhi practically koi bhi ladki itne rich family se aise family main nahi jate aur agar jate hai toh itne conserved nature ya taunt bazi nahi sehte….I am not saying that ki for an educated person ghar ka dhyan rakhna is looked down but yahan toh yeh forceful hai na
Anupama ne apne bacho ko toh kaam karvaya nahi spoilt bana kar rakha like toshu and Pakhi full on spoilt brats but doosre bacho se family and ghar ki sare expectations hai… As a mother Rakhi ki Tnsn sahi hai ki itna padh likh ke jaise Anupama topper hote the 12th tak and then kya reh gaye koi self respect nahi kuch nahi tha iss ghar main for 25 years same cheez kinjal ke saath na ho…
And practically jab kinjal ke pass itne facilities the toh aise ghar main real life main aa kar jahan uske andhe facilities bhi na ho adjust nahi hota yeh toh serial vale kuch hadh hi impractical and mahanta pe chale jate hai
And aisa toh hai nahi Rakhi pyaar nahi karte kinjal se… usne aur Pramod ne kinjal ko itne aache se pala and itne aache values Di jo ki Anupama aur vanraj jo itna moral values pe gyaan dete hai unke bacho main bhi nahi hai…Samar is still exception but not comparable to Kinjal…
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