We have always seen ahaan as a strongly opinionated and thus judgemental person. And needless to say all of us know where it comes from...
And we can explore few of his personality traits here:
Responsible
First he has always been an elder sibling thus responsibilities were automatically bestowed upon him (which is pretty common in an indian household....bade ko respect with zimmedari,chote ko pyaar ke saath seekh). And in his case toh he actually had to assume fatherly duties towards Sonu in absence of their father.
So he grew up to be a responsible guy and somewhere they mentioned also ki vo pehle itne ameer nhi the and all...
Old school thoughts...
He had been brought up by the stone age se bhi jyada purane khyalon wali evil daadi so it explains that...chacha chachi ka bhi influence tha but sabse jyada influence daadi ka tha...he has place her at the utmost position in his life till now.
Insecure
Bachpan se he was made to realise ki uske maa baap na hone ke bawajood use paala jaa raha hai...pyaar kiya jaa rha hai all because of daadi...he is insecure ki ek din ye sab chala jaayega. Somehow this is laid in his sub conscience ki agar usne kuch galat kiya toh jo usse mila hai vo bhi usse chhin jaayega...and this is from where the FAMILY OVER EVERYTHING else and PARAMPARA PRATISTHA ANUSHASAN syndrome comes from....
Craving for Love
He has never got that exclusive and selfless love from anyone...love that provides a shield to a small innocent child...love that gives security... satisfaction.
Daadi: I doubt if a heart full of so much hatred and hunger for revenge can give pure love to anyone. She always had her selfish vengeful reasons. Isiliye she always made him realise indirectly that he's an orphan....kal wale episode me bhi she said ki "phir anaath hone ke liye taiyar ho ja". No doubt vo hamesha kehta rehta hai daadi ne ye kiya hai vo tyaag kiya hai vo bhagwan jaisi hai and stuff! Unhone hamesha usse ehsaas karaya hai....
Sonu : of course her love for her brother is exclusive!! Highly exclusive no doubt and that is why he is soo attached to her.. she's the only direct family he has . But usme his share of providing love has been kept higher by himself...and she can't be there by his side forever even if she wants to (sarla jaisi saas hai uski!!!)
Kartik : more or less same as Sonu...
Chacha chachi: unka pyaar bohot achcha hai (I like themπ ) but somehow exclusive nhi hai!! And is overshadowed by daadi...
So somehow he has never got that exclusive love for eg jaisa ek ma ke pyaar par uske bachche ka sabse jyada haq hoya hota hai vaisa . Haq wala pyaar jis per sirf uska haq ho... Jise khone ka darr na ho. Zindagi ke sabse lowest time mein bhi jo assurance provide kare vaisa selfless love...
Zaahir hai use agar bachpan se pyaar mila hota toh he would also know about the power of love.... Usse jo mila vo thi family so he prioritises it.
The day he gets that assurance in love....the kind of love he has unknowingly been craving for...his beliefs will automatically change...a glimpse of which we saw in yesterday's episode....
In contrast to this Sonu was shielded in her brother's love and care somehow...
And of course ye family ke side effects toh uss par bhi dikh hi rhe the tabhi she couldn't share her grief with them... insecurity toh use bhi thi...as she wanted to end her life...all thanks to daadi's wonderful upbringing...
And ishqi , who also had similar condition of not having someone directly related to her, was still better off in her opinions because she didn't have bitter memories of her mom...she had fond memories which she cherished and which gave her strength to fight the world....she didn't have responsibilities...apni maasi ki zimmedari usne khud assume ki...and the love of her maasi is pure....darr hai but ishqi ko protect karne ka jazba bhi hai....
But but but iska yeh matlab nhi ki ahaan ne galat nhi kiya!!!
Redemption toh hona hi chahiye π£π£
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I haven't read this twice before posting...so if there are errors...pls ignore..
Do share your views please π
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