Dear Writers,
I have been a silent member of the forum, though I enjoyed being here at the same time I am fed up of the controversies on this forum.
I appreciate you all for giving your valuable time to the forum but you don't have right to criticize someone to no end. I agree you all spend the time to write stories to entertain readers but remember you are writing as it's your passion to write stories. Kindly remember you are not doing us a favor by writing your stories. So stop threatening us.
Being a writer here doesn't renown you as the winning author. Just because a few writers update twice a day that doesn't make them god or they are not almighty to treat the readers shit.
A special message to those writers who started the ritual of posting threatening threads every now & then
1. "Please if you want to quit, kindly quit. Don't put up a drama or scene.
2. "When you create a thread asking for an opinion, do learn to take negative criticism. If you can't take it then sweetie don't ask us
3. "Kindly do not open another thread next day like a jagat mata saying that the readers are begging you to continue so you are continuing. Because your ultimate motive is only to make the readers fall at your feet and beg. You were anyways going to continue. So stop with the goody two shoes lady act.
4. "If someone gives you negative criticism don't bash them in your next thread as they didn't fall at your feet.
5. Finally, don't say that this forum is my family and it is my right to ask my loyal readers. Please stop with this bullshit, because sweetheart, if they are your family then why threaten them in the first place.
6. Last but not least, learn English & grammar before writing stories. Your stories are recycled with the same old shit. Just because you write fiction that doesn't mean you write illogical & god damn things in the name of love.
Guys, there are very young people who visit this forum for entertainment. As a writer, it is your responsibility to teach some good things.
- There are writers who write the girl kisses the guy in the first instance in the name of love. And the girl shamelessly asks the guy to make her love in the second instance. A girl throwing herself at a guy who she doesn't even know in the name love is misguiding teenagers.
-I know a few of you won't agree to this, but guys the young lads will start learning, dreaming & understanding based on the fictional stories they read here. Kindly be responsible & reasonable with your content.
- I'm not saying that you are not supposed to write erotic scenes. Do write, but a few writers write the same shit from the first chapter of their story till the end. They will have this love making scene in every update of theirs. So kindly tell me, what would be the impression of the young girls who follow those writers?
- A few readers ask their favorite writers to update their favorite stories, a reasonable request if you ask me. But if they are not replying with long comments & if they don't comment first, the writers bash them unreasonably. This is so wrong. Reality check Writers, you do not own this forum.
- There are few writers who will read or comment other writers stories only if they comment on their stories. Are we doing cattle business here or we sharing our passion to read in this forum?
- Recently a writer was bashed or should I say bullied unreasonably by a cyber bully. Reality check sweetheart, the writer you claim that she copied her story from has also stolen ideas from other writers. Please check the previous plagiarism threads on her. The writer herself claimed that the idea was from other writer and the story is in her style. So next time, before you bash someone keep your facts straight.
- Just because a writer opens a thread to wish someone on their special day that doesn't mean that idea or that ritual belongs to that writer. Dear bully, why did you target that single writer alone? There are other writers who open and wish their readers on their special day. Why didn't you target them? Did you bully on your own or were you asked to bully by any very jealous and arrogant writer who thinks they own this forum?
-It's so lame that you people come up with demands from your readers, frankly, it should be their choice.
-This forum though is a good place, but bad at the same time. Most of the writers here have the habit of dominating others and demanding maximum out of them. I have been observing it's a trend now.
- Writers demanding specific count of likes and comments, a sane person doesn't do that. Why do you need to put forth a condition to entertain people here, it's frankly their choice; isn't it?
- Writers continuously threaten their readers about un-buddying them if they don't respond, well it isn't their loss, they just go with the flow, but even if you un-buddy they can still follow up with your updates. Since your readers respect you, you should do the same. You guys are no different from each other in general.
- The so-called writers here desire to dominate as if they own the whole damn place.
- The writers here aren't humble, they use abusive languages if things don't work out their way
- Few people here don't accept negative comments about their write-ups. Even the most successful people prefer taking an honest opinion from their public.
- Just for being proactive, the writers come up with rinse repeat tracks in their stories.
- People create new fake id's to bash other members here. Obviously, a sane person wouldn't get into it, it is always someone amongst us who come up with sarcastic contents just because the person holds some vigilance against the one at the receiving end.
- Recently few writers complained about getting no-nonsense PMs which complained them for not being regular writers like few are. As a member you should appreciate it, everyone isn't as free as few are here.
- Bashing threads, it's very common these days. Why a person comes up with such shitty topics. You are not entitled to mercilessly bash someone.
I have realized many have left this place, just because it isn't a healthy environment at all. I didn't intend to bash anyone here, the concerns have been very common and someone was supposed to take the initiative. It has to be started by someone, so I decided to address it.
I still appreciate all of your efforts but I was just trying to express my views here as a member.
P.S: This is not my new ID. I have been a silent reader for a long time. If you writers can't accept this criticism, then please don't call yourself a writer. I don't want to see another thread tomorrow by a writer faking sympathy because of my thread. THIS YHM FORUM IS SADLY OVER RATED & RULED BY A FEW WRITERS WHO DON'T EVEN KNOW TO WRITE ONE SENTENCE IN PROPER ENGLISH.
Hope to see a healthy discussion, if at all any positivity left in this forum.
See you all,
A frustrated reader.