Is love all about ..?

so is love all about what's inside the pants, I mean does love change just because someone is intersex or is not able to please someone sexually?

Originally posted by: ilovedhanjanird

so is love all about what's inside the pants, I mean does love change just because someone is intersex or is not able to please someone sexually?

I'm sorry but I'm finding harmans reaction way too far fetched

He has not once asked somu about her side of the story

I understand sex is important. But does somu' gender or lack of one change his feelings for her?

I understand what you're trying to say but I find Harman's behavior, reaction normal. For us it may be easy to say all these but think from Harman's point of view.
He just found out his wife's a intersex or transgender. We have to give him some time to understand or take things normally. Soumya and Harman got married way too quickly. They got married when they started to get feelings for each other. They don't even know much about each other.
They got married so it's normal for Harman to think about their physical relation. Harman's family started talking about grandchildens before Soumya even entered the house. I think Harman's anger is totally justified. And eventually Harman will understand and become Soumya's "shakti"

Its not what you think..
Its natural reaction of any one who is in the situation like harman..

Let's reverse the situation.
Would you be ok with Saumya a sexually normal girl getting married fraudulently to a Harman who is impotent.
Would you expect her to forgive and love her husband and forget her dreams of having her own kids.

Harman 's reactions are quite natural. He thinks he has been betrayed by the person he claims he loves. His dreams r shattered. His anger is justified.

His reaction is def too far fetched ? What I find even more stupid is he never once asked her why she tried to kill herself !

His reaction to the big revelation is quite normal

Originally posted by: alka2212

His reaction to the big revelation is quite normal

Anyone in this normal world would behave like the same unless he is a mahaan aatma from any Indian daily soap

They are showing a genuine reaction for a change

What I dont understand is Somya's reaction

She is running behind her husband when her whole life has changed she doesn't seem worried about her life & identity

its easy to say than done

I don't understand why people feel harman should accept everything watever it may be just becoz he loves her 😕 he has every right to react like that...it's very easy to say why can't he accept her ? This is a tv show & after a few episodes he'll accept her for sure...but will people do the same in reality ? No then how can u expect that after coming to know such a big thing abt ur wife...u should accept her wid open arms 😆 obviously a normal guy would react...& Becoz this a tv show they r showing a love story between the leads...in real that's not even possible 😃 & I would say more than angry harman is hurt as he feels betrayed as he had full faith in saumya...& Loved her whole heartedly So he feels she has lied to him & cheated him...but if somu knew this she would've never married him & I'm sure when he'll get to know the complete thing that saumya was unaware abt it...he'll accept her...😳